Is edging reset?

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  1. Blue Sky7

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    I hope not bcs i did this today
     
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  3. Tiger uppercut!

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    Edging is the worst possible thing you can do for your reboot.
     
  4. Blue Sky7

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    :( so i must restart counter??
     
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  5. Curry

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    Yes. You made a mistake.
     
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    That’s ultimately up to you. Everyone has their own goals. I’d just try to not do that anymore.
     
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  7. Blue Sky7

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    Thank Dear God i only did it for few mins so i hope its not reset thank you all for answers
     
  8. Blue Sky7

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    If i do this one more time in next 100 days i will reset count
     
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  9. Blue Sky7

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    OkeY maybe 100 days is for me too much to say but lets say in next 3 weeks no edge or reset count
     
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  10. crazyaf

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    Reset maybe, but not a relapse.
     
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  11. bfdet

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    Edging is bad news. Read this:

    Short version: DO NOT EDGE ! EVER !

    Edging is really bad. Edging trains your body and mind to expect and to need prolonged, often very intense, stimulation in order to reach O. That level of mental and physical stimulation doesn't happen with PIV relations. Guess what: when you attempt PIV, your body and mind don't receive the kind of stimulation it needs to O, instead your body responds with PIED and DE. Not good.

    Edging does NOTHING good, so stop. Easier said than done, but it is certainly NOT impossible and very much worth every bit of effort required to stop this damaging activity.

    For more information about edging, have a look at:

    https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/reb...masturbate-edge-or-watch-porn-without-orgasm/

    DO NOT EDGE. EVER !


    regarding your counter - what you do with it is your decision.

    One day at a time is how we all succeed.
     
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  12. eoptda

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    i mean, you did ''fap'' while edging, didnt you?XD
     
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  13. Blue Sky7

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    Was for very short period bcs i realize what i was doing
     
  14. PrinceOtaku

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    guys on here is ridicules, I guess touching your dick when you take a leak is now considered a relapse. If you watched porn and edge then yea I would reset.
     
  15. Blue Sky7

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    No no not watching any p
     
  16. Blue Sky7

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    P is dangerous avoid it always
     
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  17. eoptda

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    guy on here specifically asked if edging is reset and not just touching your dick. and on the relapse - depends on what colour the leak is :rolleyes:
     
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  18. Blue Sky7

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    But people dont even do it for minute its no good
     
  19. Blue Sky7

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    It leads to reset and relapse
     
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  20. DayOne44

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    My last relapse was a binge of three edging sessions in one day.

    The first was before I took a shower after my morning workout.

    That must have gone for about 20 minutes.

    Then, before bed, I edged with porn on my smart phone.

    I must have done that about an hour.

    (It's amazing how time flies in the porn world.)

    I couldn't sleep and got out of bed to edge more with porn on the computer screen.

    That was for about 45 minutes.

    All that scrambled my brain, and it was just as depleting as masturbating to full ejaculation.

    Definitely, the effects of even a little edging on me are the same as PMO.

    In a way, however, edging is a lesser evil.

    That is not because of semen retention; the benefits of abstinence are lost in edging.

    If I masturbate to completion, then the next week would be easy.

    All of the tensions which lead to PMO would be dissipated, and I would not have any desire for PMO.

    That is the easy way: to ejaculate so that you will not have much desire to masturbate for days.

    By not ejaculating and only edging, the urges will hit again sooner and harder.

    Then, I will have an earlier opportunity to practice dealing with them.

    I need that practice.

    NoFap cannot be easy, and we cannot be looking for ways to make it easy.
     

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