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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Fhgiirdsjhxsg, Mar 29, 2017.

  1. Fhgiirdsjhxsg

    Fhgiirdsjhxsg Fapstronaut

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    Hi. Found myself shamefully viewing P and M for the past few months (the worst months of my life). Am still a virgin though. Got super angry with EVERYTHING. Always thought P was disgusting (and frankly it is). Its not what God created me for, felt like the biggest sinner on earth for allowing earthly desires to overtake me when i have grown up as a strong person with lots of sexual control all my life. Nice to be part of this forum. Now watch me succeed and defeat this thing ;)
     
  2. D . J .

    D . J . Fapstronaut

    Welcome to NoFap where you are amongst friends who are here to encourage you and sometimes challenge you but not judge you.

    What are your current strategies for combating the enemy called PMO?
     
  3. Fhgiirdsjhxsg

    Fhgiirdsjhxsg Fapstronaut

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    Thanks! :) Firstly what exactly does "O" stand for? Haha, apologies, am a bit new to these terms. I tried installing an app that blocks P but it didn't work, i get out of my room and find myself in the midst of people where i cant do anything, let alone feel any turn on because am up and about thinking about other things. Get up early, get back home late when am tired and just need to rest my head. Sleep has helped at times when i get a turn on, am better off asleep than thinking because i'll be tempted to view my gadgets and go on weird sites. And telling my mind everyday that "I stopped P and M and its the best decision ever because i get no satisfaction from it" has worked to a large degree. What are yours?
     
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  4. D . J .

    D . J . Fapstronaut

    O stands for orgasm.

    Check out In Case You Didn't Know for strategies and tips which may help you along your journey
     
  5. Fhgiirdsjhxsg

    Fhgiirdsjhxsg Fapstronaut

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    Ah i see, thanks!!!
     
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    UnCleverUser Fapstronaut

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  7. Fhgiirdsjhxsg

    Fhgiirdsjhxsg Fapstronaut

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    Thanks :)
     
  8. UnCleverUser

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    I'm new here too and everyone, as I'm sure you've seen, has been really helpful and open with their experience with PMO. Hope you get good results from the site! @Fhgiirdsjhxsg
     
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  9. Fhgiirdsjhxsg

    Fhgiirdsjhxsg Fapstronaut

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    I am confident i will :D Welcome too! hehe
     
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    OK, man, it is important to have a reason when quitting, a good reason, a reason that is important to you. This habit is a habit we probably would not quit unless it had some bad repercussions in our lives. Cigarette smokers would not quit if it did not affect them adversely. They lose lung capacity and eventually get cancer. There are all kinds of bad results from using porn all the time. From PIED (porn induced erectile dysfunction) to social interaction problems.
    "When I quit, I quit. I did not count the days, I woke up every morning and said to myself I am never going back". I think that is the mindset you must have.
     
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  11. Fhgiirdsjhxsg

    Fhgiirdsjhxsg Fapstronaut

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    Simply lovely, thanks!
     
  12. Just another concept

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    @Fhgiirdsjhxsg

    21 So I find it to be a law that when I want to do right, evil lies close at hand. 22 For I delight in the law of God, in my inner being, 23 but I see in my members another law waging war against the law of my mind and making me captive to the law of sin that dwells in my members.24 Wretched man that I am! Who will deliver me from this body of death?25 Thanks be to God through Jesus Christ our Lord!

    Romans 7 21-25

    Stay strong brother! We are weak in our flesh but made strong in Christ. We are also called to seek fellowship to be one body in Christ.

    9 But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me. For the sake of Christ, then, I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. For when I am weak, then I am strong.

    2 Corinthians 12 9-10

    You are among a vibrant community of support and fellow brothers to help you tackle the temptations of the flesh. Stand not on your own but lay it all at the foot of the cross. God will provide the strength and the armor if you ask. Feel free to reach out for support and encouragement always
     

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