Intimacy During Reboot?

I think it's a good idea.

Have sex once a week

If you don't have a boner, don't worry about it and don't force it. Try again next week. Ask your wife not to give you a blow job or hand job for now. You want to rewire for the vagina. Also don't Masturbate while having sex. If you don't have an orgasm, don't worry about it and try again next week.

 

I think if you relapse once or twice a day by having sex with your wife, then your on the road to success.

Isn't that the point of this, or was it to become a sex less robot? Its all about better relationships with real people. I can't wait till my counter is a PM counter and not a PMO counter.

Congrats bro! You did well.

 

I half agree. Tell her no HANDS or you may relapse back into porn. Hell that is a great Idea, I am bring that home. My wife will have no choice if you know what I mean.

 

What really turns me on is the love and connection

During love making, if your not hard, try and cuddle her and look into her eyes. Just kiss her and talk to her. Talk about how much you love her. Take the time to smell her body and her hair. When your fully relaxed, I find my erections come back again.

It might take half an hour or an hour for the erections to come back again but it doesn't matter. You have all the time in the world. Do not rush things. If nothing is working, try again next week.

 

I am very much on "team sex with your wife is good."

I think porn is a vicious cycle where a lack of intimacy causes you to abuse porn which causes you to push further away which diminishes intimacy further. In a healthy relationship based on trust and respect, sex can push you closer together. A virtuous cycle in place of a viscous one.

Assuming everything is working physically I think sex with the wife is a good thing.

I have no science, research or statistics to back this up; but it has helped me. If it doesn't work for you, do something else.

 

Imagine if you became addicted to having sex with your wife like you did/do PMO. Think of the possibility it could have for your relationship. You may endup becoming shut ins.

However, one of the worse things my wife unknowing does is reject me in the morning. I'd be poking her but with my manhood, biting her and kissing her and she would shoo me away and tell me to go take care of myself in the shower. Being extremely horny and needing one cum, I'd just go to the guest bathroom while she lays in bed and edge for 30+ mins to tgirls. Chaser effect I guess.

I have a healthier solution. I'm just going to MO right next to her. She use her vibrator right next to me when she wants a quickie without sex to put herself to bed. Who knows what her response will be, hopefully positive.

 

I am married.
Was having sex 1-2 times per week

Was pmo'ing 2-3 times per day.

I decided to quit PM.

I am now enjoying sex more. We're having sex more often.

Sex between husband and wife is good. PMO is not good. That's how I look at it

 

Get some penis pills, a quarter will do amazing things. Shy or drunk you will perform. Even if your only packing 4 inches it will be made of steel and it's a major confidence boost!

Did it once and wore my wife out after 45 mins of intercourse. She was exhausted, I was high on the fact that I completely dominated her expectations.

 

This kept Larry David out of the hall of fame.

 

My SO decided to go hard mode no PMO but we are still having sex and he still wants me to O. He stops himself before Oing. Sex lasts a lot longer and has gone from 1-2x wk to just about daily. He says his daily urges have been manageable as well. He is about a month P and M free but 16days O free. He's also hoping not to flatline but we will see..