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Interesting Article: "A High View of Marriage Includes Divorce"

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by TryingHard2Change, Aug 12, 2018.

  1. TryingHard2Change

    TryingHard2Change Distinguished Fapstronaut

    [This article is 100% religious / Christian-based views, debate about divorce. If you aren't religious .. or are anti-religion ... please don't take offense to this.]

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    In my 1-hour deep discussion with my wife this morning--she brought up this article. I have read it 3 times now...and it is good.

    It has many bullet points -- but growing up in the church, I think the fundamental question this article is addressing is the following: the Bible definitely gives reasons/circumstances where divorce is acceptable. But even in those scenarios, if the offending spouse is repentant .. is it "God's best" for the betrayed spouse to forgive and not exercise their Biblical "right" to divorce?

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    I also very much appreciated this article's wrestling with if the union of marriage is more important than the individuals in the marriage.

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    Interesting Read:
    https://www.google.com/amp/s/gentle...a-high-view-of-marriage-includes-divorce/amp/
     
  2. EyesWideOpen

    EyesWideOpen Fapstronaut

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    This is an interesting article. It specifically mentions that divorce protects a women from abuse when her husband is unrepentant, to which I wholeheartedly agree. But what about when he is fully repentant? Not only that, but is continually working to right his wrongs, repair the damage, and become the man, husband, and father he should have been in the first place? It doesn't address that, presumably because there is no Biblical basis for divorce anymore in that scenario (since he has repented and is now seeking the Lord and reconciliation).
     
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  3. Queenie%Bee

    Queenie%Bee Fapstronaut

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    Yesss !! This !! I can’t steal from a store , repent and keep doing it and repent and expect forgiveness from the store owner , or God . But that’s my take , I’m not really religious. I used to ask my MIL who is VERY religious ( my SO was an alter boy , all boys schooling until college then went sex crazy and porn started ) if someone is in confession and the priest is “with” little boys , does god hear the persons confession and what right does the priest have to listen ?? She could never answer me :(
     
  4. mcgrim

    mcgrim Fapstronaut

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    I believe regardless of what sins a priest has committed if a priest forgives a sin for someone else then that sin is forgiven in God's eyes. A priest can't forgive their own sins.

    This is my belief, others may believe differently.
     
  5. Queenie%Bee

    Queenie%Bee Fapstronaut

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    I believe that too , but when I first asked her is when everything blew up in the Catholic Church , a lot of the times over the years she just sounded like a hypocrite when it came to that . Forgive 7000 times she always said lol as a human being that is VERY hard to even forgive “a few” times for the same offense
     
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  6. boilerball123

    boilerball123 Fapstronaut

    A priest in the confessional is acting in the person of Christ (in persona Christe). Therefore, God is hearing the confession and is giving absolution, not the priest himself. Whether or not he is in a state of mortal sin is irrelevant.
     

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