I'm a photographer, so I have Adobe Lightroom & Photoshop on my phone & laptop that my tumor paid for & set up for me. Somehow it's possible to sync email accounts via Adobe. My tumor figured this out & has had access to my email for the past month. I thought I had spyware because he seemed to know what I was doing at all times; super creepy. I just figured out today how he was really keeping tabs on me. BUT, the tumor forgot that I can see what he was looking at too.....holy fuckballs, was I blind. BLIND. I ditched my phone the day I filed. I'm ditching my email next. Bizarre. Please do not give him your phone. It's the worst thing a spouse can do when married to an addict. He's desperate to find something bad on you because he's running out of excuses for how he's not 100% responsible for the state of your marriage.