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My wife discovered that I was a porn addict and I never really knew it or anything. Sounds stupid but its never effected my life in anyway shape or form till now. I used to watch porn 5 to 6 times a day. I am in recovery for drug and alcohol addiction and for some reason applying the 12 steps to this area of my life is harder then what I thought. I haven't watched porn in 6 days and thats probably because of my 12 step program. The issue im having now is that my wife will go down on me I'll be hard as a rock and yesterday we tried having sex 2 times and both times like 10 minutes in I just went soft like it stopped working I am 25 years old and my wife is amazing in bed so I feel like somethings wrong with me. I saw that there's something called porn induced erectile dysfunction and I need to know the facts and cures of this. I thought it might have been my medications I take for depressents and ADHD which are known to do the same thing Porn induced erectile dysfunction does. I am worried about my sex life so any tips and help would be appreciated. I feel really low and worthless. My wife is even doing things that I would only see in porn which is one of the reasons I stopped so I don't get it cause for me, It wasnt the other women that made me turned on it was the things I seen in porn. The aggressive nature. The choking and slapping and man handeling the women that turned me on. So I am straight confused why this is happening to me and I am reaching out

 

Have you Dealt with this whole Porn induced erectile dysfunction thing