Hi all, I mentioned this in a different thread I have going, but it feels better placed seeking advice here. Okay, right now I have two girls places I could go to for casual sex tonight. I haven't watched porn or jerked off in 8-9 days now, so it would be good to have sex. But at the same time casual sex I feel afterwards I will be driving home feeling like crap. Also, there is a cute girl at the cafe I frequent (yes, I know), and she seems very smiley with me, has at times gone out of her way to come up to my table to talk to me, asks me how my study is going and stuff. Sure, it might be general chit-chat, but it kinda seems like maybe a bit more. I worked up the courage to ask her name and said I was hesitant to ask and she said "it's okay if you ask" I kind of took that as being, well, it is okay that it is me asking, but she may not be as receptive if someone else asked the same thing. The point of this thread: The thought of going to have casual sex on one hand would be fun, but even though I am not dating, or even 100% know if the cute cafe girl is interested, she is on my mind and I feel like an asshole for even having casual sex when I am interested in getting to know her more. Might sound super lame, and perhaps it is. Either way, I needed to get this off my chest and any advice would be great.