I RUINED MY LIFE

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Jay., Dec 23, 2017.

  1. Jay.

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    Thank you. Am doing my best to stay strong at this.
     
  2. ..Anna..

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    Take two people who smoke equal amounts and equally long- one will have health problem because of cigarette after few years, other much later and not the problem which first guy got, but something else. And there will be third person who will live till 100 years old smoking 70 years in a row. As cigarette affects each body differentely, the same too frequent ejaculation.
     
  3. Gnathan

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    your hair loss is not related to porn and masturbation.

    you are young. it is better to try and stop now than later. listen to others. all of us were doing what you are doing...BUT WE COULD NOT STOP IT...we tried....we tried so hard...we could not stop it....FINALLY WE ARE FINDING A WAY TO STRUGGLE THROUGH AND GO FOR 1 DAY OR 10 DAY OR 20 DAYS OR 3 MONTHS....
    not so easy...

    you are so young....take advantage of being young...and try your best to stop...

    addiction is so hard to stop. like you said...it has become part of me....you are right...that is addiction.....to get rid of it is so hard....but do it 24 hours at a time....be sober for 24 hours...then worry about tomorrow...

    you will become so good with friends and family and girls....you will be so confident...dont worry about hair...its not related to porn....your real issue is porn....not hair loss....

    hair loss is normal....whether its natural....genetics...weather....different shampoo...conditioner...

    try to go for 5 days....then 10 days...then keep going....keep yourself busy with friends....dont be alone....go out ofr movies....lock your computer and go to sleep soon...

    hope this helps
     
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  4. challenge60

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    Is hair loss a product of pmo?? expecting scientiifc replies!
     
  5. Jay.

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    Thank you, Actually i am on day 9 currently. It really does helps. i'll try to go out as much as possible and keep myself busy with other things.
     
  6. Jay.

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    so concerning this, most people will say hairloss is not related to masturbation, but i do not agree with this. i don't know about in females but am sure it matters in males.
     
  7. Jay.

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    I messed up again. I have just relasped few minutes ago and i feel so stupid. It was like i intentionally ran into a burning building and let myself get burnt. Now am back to day 1 after 16 days.
     
  8. Satyam sagar

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    Don't panic bro jst use the experience of these 16 days and make it 1600 and continuing.
     
  9. rishi123

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    only one solution....no PMO...remove lust from your mind......eat right, meditate and workout
     
  10. Star Lord

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    Just buzz cut your hair and accept it.
    There’s worse things in life to worry about.
     
  11. Jay.

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    well now am back to day 2 and counting.
    i definitely won't do that, at least not now
     
  12. Star Lord

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    The future is either be bald entirely or have patchy hair.

    I’d prefer to just buzz cut to a number 1 or Number 0.
     
  13. StayingFocused

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    God is just a religious word.

    I just ask my natural, inner self to get back on the track that all nature naturally follows. Look at the sky, there is peace above all this madness and it will always be there for you. You are that sky and everything else that can make you better.

    Believe in you, you are everything you need.
     
  14. Jay.

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    Thanks a lot guys. I relasped but i got to day 6 again today. Now for no reason whenever i see a guy with nice hair i get angry at myself. Theae past few days, i don't feel the urges to masturbate. What i feel is just anger and depression. I try mybest not to think about it to much and direct my focus and energy elsewhere but every now and then i still get angry or depressed.
     
  15. Salvo

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    The day I stopped worrying about my hairloss I stopped losing it, true story my friend. The more you think and worry about it and the more they will fall. Easier said than done but stop worrying about it please and you will see
     
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  17. Rondo

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    #1 Your hair does not define who you are. It does not make you any more or less of a man. Your actions, how you treat people, how you make people feel...these things are much more important than what you got sitting on top of your head.

    #2 Don't try to self-diagnose medical issues via Google. That's a slippery slope that often causes more questions than answers, causing you more anxiety than before you started.

    #3 Appreciate you sharing my man. Don't worry, it will get better. Good luck to you.
     
  18. Jay.

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    Thanks man. If only i had stop masturbating sooner it wouldn't be as bad as this
     

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