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I need some help bad, (new sorry if this is the wrong forum)

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Skatelyfe, May 15, 2019.

  1. May 15, 2019 #1
    Skatelyfe

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    Hello all. I’m new here and just need some damn help.

    I’ve been on and off NoFap for almost a year and just killed my longest streak of a almost two months 3 days ago and then relapsed again tonight. I feel awful and I’m very upset with myself. Literally almost in tears becuse of this and life. I was starting to feel so new and refreshed again and now it’s just gone. I’m prepared for the aftermath and I AM going to try hardest though to stop for good. Can anyone give me some steps or tricks/tips to help?
     
    Skatelyfe, May 15, 2019
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  2. May 15, 2019 #2
    Souvent08

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    Hey, you had a pretty good streak. You should be proud of that. Even though you relapsed, you still have that streak to look back on and motivate you. Look at where things went wrong and learn from them so that you are a stronger man. You are trying no PMO and that’s very difficult to do. A relapse is just a wake up call. You fell, now get back up and move forward. I suggest you continue to come here and read peoples threads and comment. That has helped me a lot.
     
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  3. May 15, 2019 #3
    Skatelyfe

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    Thank you. I really do feel I have some triggers I need to work out that I burried under the rug while on my streak. I think a community like this is what I need since I don’t feel comfortable talking about this to people I know
     
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  4. May 15, 2019 #4
    Targaryenn

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    Wow, great post and tips. Thank you very much!
     
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  5. May 15, 2019 #5
    Souvent08

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    Yeah, same here. I dont talk about PMO to anybody besides here.
     
    Souvent08, May 15, 2019
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  6. May 15, 2019 #6
    svance421

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    Not talking to anyone about it besides on here is what I do too for the most part. But I have told a couple of my close friends who I know will never judge me. I really needed that actual support not from online. And believe it or not, once I explained what I’ve been going through, a couple of them realized that they had the same problems. I think it’s good to talk to your friends about it, because chances are, you might shed some light on to their life. They might need to know about the dangers of porn. Who knows, maybe they need NoFap as well.
     
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  7. May 15, 2019 #7
    Always be positive

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  8. May 15, 2019 #8
    TimeToQuitNow

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    coming here is a good first step.

    One tip I can give is that when you get an urge stop what you are doing and do something else. Even just sit in a new chair. It helps more times then I can count.
     
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