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I need help because of strong feet and femdom fetish

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by turkishfetish, May 19, 2017.

  1. May 19, 2017 #1
    turkishfetish

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    Hi guys. First of all I am sorry for my poor English. I am Turkish and English is not my native language. I am 26 years old.
    I have had strong foot fetish and femdom tendency since my childhood. My paraphilia is not from just porn addiction and natural. I have took so many seances from mistress in Turkey but all my experiences related licking girls feet, humiliation, domination etc. in these seances. So I have never had real sex experiment. Just I had blowjob experiment two weeks ago and I ejeculated a girl's mouth. It was realy fun and my first experience close to vanilla sex. Afterwards I decided that have a vanillia sex. I convinced one of the dominatrixs in my life for a real sex but omg. She is 47 years old and her pussy was very ugly and hairy. As well as her clitoris is outside and it disgusted me. Consequently I penetrated but i couldn't maintain my erection. I depressed and cried. My first vanillia experiement was unsuccesful. After this incident I decided give up fetish femdom porn which I watch every day and masturbation with it. But I releapsed. I give a most bad news guys.
    I will married after 40 days. Please help me I need your advices.
     
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  2. May 19, 2017 #2
    Duke of Gine

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    Thanks for posting.
    There are lots of threads with great advice on them all over this site. You can find something that will help you.

    Identifying triggers and patterns is a good place to start.

    Also, don't beat yourself up. Hope is better than gloom. Many men who are where you are now are now where you want to be. You can overcome!

    Just one kind word about the descriptive post you wrote: please remember that there are people on here that can be triggered by the way that you write a post. Take a moment to read the guidelines so that we can all be safe here.
     
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  3. May 19, 2017 #3
    turkishfetish

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    Thank you so much your advice. You are right about some inappropriate words in my message but the reason is fully describe what i lived. I am so sorry all fapstronauts.
     
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  4. May 20, 2017 #4
    balkanic_falcon

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    Hello!
    I am femdom addict too. But i will not be this forever. I will cure myself. And you will, too.

    You need to force yourself to stop fantasizing about femdom.
    Tips:
    -Everytime when you think about it, say to yourself: "No! It's not natural!"
    -Remember that when you relapse, you feel so bad. So it's not part of your nature. It's porn induced.
    -If you are religious, try to pray. So, you are Turkish. I guess you are muslim. Islam is against pornography. Just follow your faith on the right way man. I am from christian orthodox family, but i am not religious... Anyway, strong faith always help, so i respect religion.
    -Try fasting.
    -Workout every day with some pauses.
    -Concentrate on your job or hobbies.
    -Be more with your friends.
    -Don't let yourself to be bored.
    -Don't spend much time on your PC.
    -Read books, many books, everyday read 50 minimum pages.
    -Running is very good!
    -Just tell yourself "i am not a slave, i am not an porn addict. I actually hate femdom. Repeat it."
    -Do minimum 30 days reboot, for beginning. Then you will feel much better and you will easy go to 90. But don't stop there! Quit porn forever!

    Check my story here:
    https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/femdom-addiction-for-7-years-please-help.94640/

    You have a lot of advices there.

    Greetings and good luck!
     
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  5. May 21, 2017 #5
    turkishfetish

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    Thank you so much for excellent advice and wishes my friend. Yes you are absolutely right all about you wrote. I have to stay strong and cut PMO. The good news for me Ramadan (the fasting month for muslims) is coming and I am going to be fasting. As well as I am Phd Student in Ankara and I deal with dissertation. So I have a lot of things to stay far away from fetishism. I have not interested femdom or fetish things since 2 days and it makes me happy. But I have big anxiety for marriage. I hope will able to maintain my erection during first night. I need to reconditioning. I wonder that will my penis sensitisation increase, if I don't touch my penis and watch porn (sorry for my english again :) )

    Thank you again my friend. You gave me courage and morale. God bless you.
     
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  6. May 21, 2017 #6
    balkanic_falcon

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    You are welcome! Always remember that you can overcome it. :)

    Stay strong!
     
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