I made out today

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by drkarim, Mar 29, 2019.

  1. drkarim

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    Today i made out for more than 4 hours with a gitl with no erection at all then i got erection after she started physical touching with her hand and it was good hard one but as soon as she stops i lose it again ie it needs continiuos physical touching not erection from the inside of me !
    Any ideas
     
  2. drkarim

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    And Of course according to that i was not to be able to penetrate her
     
  3. CH3RRY

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    Erectile dysfunction, most likely porn induced.
     
  4. over50

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    Is your counter correct? After 162 days I would have thought, the PIED should be mostly gone.
     
  5. drkarim

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    No unfortunately iam still pmoing however to a much lesser rate than before..
     
  6. over50

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    I'm afraid the PIED will only get better when you completely abstain from PMO. I'm on day 40 currently and have noticed some changes, morning woods, able to get erections without touching etc. But it is a slow process and it takes time. The believe in a success and a better situation in the future is one of my main motivators to keep on going, even if there are times when it'n not easy.
     
  7. Jup1t3r

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    I'd say it will definitely take some time; first get your head sorted out. That's where all the problems lie...at least I know that for me they do.
     
  8. drkarim

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    i tried to have a blow job today with my gf and guess what no erection at all unlike last time
     
  9. Jup1t3r

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    Your brain is dopamine hunting for the porn. Just stay away from it long enough to make your brain “rewire” and associate erections with the girlfriend instead of a website.
     
  10. Jup1t3r

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    I hope your girlfriend knows what’s going on. I know that sometimes ED makes them feel like they’re the screw up
     
  11. drkarim

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    I did a trial with my gf yesterday still no erection
     
  12. drkarim

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    Any ideas of what can be done to please her while awaiting my boner?
     
  13. bfdet

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    Hey 'Karim !

    If I'm understanding your question correctly, any detailed response would likely include triggers for a LOT of the readers on this site. I surely won't even begin to address that kind of response other that to request you please consider seeking such information elsewhere.

    I will answer your question is a way that I believe helpful, even if it may not be quite the response you seek.

    I suggest that you enjoy just spending time and being with your gf. Learning to just enjoy and cherish your time together is the foundation of intimacy. There are LOTS of things that you can do together apart from PIV that I'm quite sure your gf would really enjoy. Why don't you think of a few that she may enjoy and propose them to her - or simply ask what she'd like to do. Maybe its a visit to an art gallery, an musical performance, or maybe a walk at the park. Whatever you two decide to do, it will be great for you both.

    There are lots of things to do to strengthen your relationship, have fun, and allow the necessary time for healing.

    One day at a time is how we all succeed.
     
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  14. drkarim

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    Great thank u for ur support
     
  15. drkarim

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    I masturbated while on sex call with a rock hard erecrion with my gf on the phone with only her voice and not any other imagination also the erection was spontanoues without manual stimulation .is this a sign that iam on the way to cure?
     
    Last edited: Apr 16, 2019
  16. Nuallann

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    Being able to get erections from less stimulating sources other than porn is a good sign for sure.
     

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