I lost my girl and I wanna die

Welcome to the club

 

I know sorry about that i wast just trying to say that there are many of us here in the same boat

 

at least you had a girl to lose many of us here never did (myself included)

 

Please stop injuring yourself. This will not bring her back. Your behaviour is not healthy.

If you cannot stop and continue to injure yourself and have suicidal thoughts, please visit your nearest hospital.

In the world of relationships, breaking-up is sometimes just a normal part of the process.

Unfortunately, there is no magical answer as to how to cope with break-ups.

I give you my total sympathies. I know that you're going through a mound of hurt. But you need to mourn your loss in a far more healthy manner. No companion is worth your life.

 

Agreed with veritech. A breakup can feel like learning a family member died. There's the 5 stages of grief. There's going to be pain. But trust that it will get better.

If you are having suicidal thoughts, it's imperative that you reach out to someone. This is the suicide hotline you should call if you ever have strong suicidal thoughts. 1(800)273-8255

And I apologize parkinsonx couldn't say anything more helpful, but don't take his comments to seriously.

Keep us posted

 

Man, i don't know to help a lot... But the only thing i can tell you is something i learned in One Piece: as long you're alive, good things can happen. I'm sorry. We, from NoFap, will always be with you

 

As you yourself wrote she didn't love you and was emotionally distant. She was never there for you to start with. You gained yourself! Make some new friends. Get active. Run, lift weights, do something ! Find a passion in your life for something. Stop hurting yourself and feeling sorry for yourself. If you feel like you need therapy seek a therapist to get over the loss and move forward. I girl is NEVER a reason to die.

 

This is something you can grow from. You obviously have no love for yourself. Which means you're probably incapable of loving anyone else. It's time for change. And the pain of this situation is there to wake you up.

 

Don't hurt yourself. Seek professional help if you are headed in that direction. Over time you can heal,grow and love yourself. It's not just a possibility. It can happen.

 

1: Stop hurting yourself

2: Yes it's going to hurt for a while. Your going to have to accept that. But you can get through it!

3: Your currently in the worst place you can be. Stagnation. It's important you start dating again asap. Even if you don't feel like it. Take action! Download Tinder, go to some bars and talk to girls. Talk to a girl everyday in the street. Just do something! If that's too much just get out the house, walk down the street and count how many cute girls you see. There are tonnes of people out there. You can always meet someone better. You just have to put yourself in the position where you can. Plus having as much dating experience as possible is always a plus.

Tldr

Accept that you are going to feel shitty for a while. Stop hurting yourself. Get outside and start meeting more girls.

You can do it! Even if you don't feel like it.

 

If I may, give love 2 yourself first!!!!!! Giving away everything you have to someone else isn't love. It's called co-dependent. That's unhealthy!!!! Also stop trying to find peace,happiness etc..etc....in girls/women. Jesus! People need 2 wake the fuck up. You will never find happiness with a woman unless you first have it by yourself. Do that first. Be happy alone! Find something you love 2 do and are passionate about and do that (other than girls,sex,porn.)

 

Meeting new girls isn't the answer. Find yourself. I work in a place where people come to die. Young people. People who would love the opportunity to be able to simply walk down the street. Stop feeling sorry for yourself.