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I held a semi-erection around someone for a while. Is this a good sign?

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Anonymous86, Dec 18, 2016.

  1. Dec 18, 2016 #1
    Anonymous86

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    Is this a good sign that things kind of work?
     
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  2. Dec 18, 2016 #2
    Deadlihood

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    Was it during an intimate moment, or? Either way, it sounds like a good sign!
     
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  3. Dec 18, 2016 #3
    Anonymous86

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    It wasn't an intimate moment. I will say that it was a "date-like" experience with no physical contact whatsoever that was sexual. It was all visual.
     
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  4. Dec 18, 2016 #4
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    It would be better not to hold your semi-erection around people. :oops: It would be a better sign not to touch your penis! :rolleyes:
     
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  5. Dec 18, 2016 #5
    Anonymous86

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    Huh? Why do you say that? I didn't touch my penis at all...
     
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  6. Dec 18, 2016 #6
    IGY

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    You said that you "held a semi-erection". What I said was a joke, which is why I used the sarcasm emoticon:- :rolleyes:
     
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  7. Dec 18, 2016 #7
    Deadlihood

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    I would LOVE to build a wall to block out the...others. :rolleyes:
     
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  8. Dec 18, 2016 #8
    Deadlihood

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    I see. Well...then it sounds like it was a good thing!
     
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  9. Dec 19, 2016 #9
    Anonymous86

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    Lol. Thanks for making light of my situation, fellas. :)

    Now, how can I have a semi-erection around a guy (I am gay and sure of it) if I have PIED? Or maybe, I don't have PIED? But I have no libido? Perhaps, this is just a certain degree of PIED?
     
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  10. Dec 19, 2016 #10
    Deadlihood

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    I can get semi-erections on occasion (not without physical contact, though). But I haven't been fully hard in at least 2+ years, even while masturbating or attempting to have sex, that's PIED for ya!

    (I also can't maintain erections).
     
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  11. Dec 19, 2016 #11
    Anonymous86

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    It's scary because I'm in a complicated situation. I haven't fully tried a reboot because of a multitude of reasons. I am not going to not do it, it's more of a "when I am ready".
     
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  12. Dec 19, 2016 #12
    Deadlihood

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    I hear you. Granted, I tried having sex one month ago...and FAILED!
     
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  13. Dec 19, 2016 #13
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    I don't know how to do my reboot and rewire. I am not completely comfortable with being gay (good news: I'm getting there!) and the only way to meet other gay men without the trashy ones seems online, yet the dating websites can count as porn subs so I feel trapped.

    I don't know what to do...
     
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  14. Dec 21, 2016 #14
    L'Étranger

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    Hey there, it really depends how you use it. It becomes porn subs if you associate it with it. If you find yourself scrolling through picture for more than 10 minutes, keep away from it for a while. Then try again with a clearer mind.

    To be honest, your average day can become a p-sub if you allow it to be. I read some people considering random magazine ads or family friend tv shows as p-subs. You have to become aware of your own weaknesses, identifiy them and go around when detect it.
     
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  15. Dec 21, 2016 #15
    Anonymous86

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    Yeah, this is what I'm worried about. I don't know what to do because I want to be able to not look at guys on the computer sexually too much, if I wanted to meet someone to rewire with. I don't know how to tackle that, you know? But I'm also not comfortable 100% with my sexuality, so.

    The good news is that while I'm in a flatline I can still get a semi-erection if I'm around a gay guy. I consciously knew this person I was around was gay, he was attractive, and I had a semi-erection for a while as a result. I just wish I could still get morning wood...blah.
     
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