I hate how much this shit bleeds into real life

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Fixmybrain, Jul 28, 2019.

  1. Fixmybrain

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    I need to get rid of lust forever. Every time I hit the bars, I can’t stop looking at women and having crazy, unwanted fantasies. Wish I could just kill my lust and to think logically with the right head, instead of the wrong head. I just want to be normal already..feels like I’m living in a nightmare at times, real talk. I say all this too with the fact that I have a girlfriend as well. Not good guys
     
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  2. fellowBrother

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    I feel the same way bro, but I dont have a girlfriend. Youve done what a lot of people on this forum have trouble with already. Do you guys have sex? If so, that doesn't help relieve the sexual tension you have??
     
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    this vid is a visual/audio masterpiece. it's about your addiction to chemicals, and how it's the difference between him and you.

    he is showing you in the vid, what he can actually do. astral projection, telekinesis, defeat Bruce Lee, etc

    but don't get discouraged, it's the same struggle for all living things, from bacteria to gods, and it's eternal, you take 3 steps forward, and two steps back

    i really don't know how to stop it myself, other than not doing it for at least a week. after two weeks you GOT to let it out, or it comes out in sleep, but after that the compulsion has died down A LOT, you can almost do it regularly once a week or something without it being compulsive but still, seems better to go long periods, the PROBLEM is after long periods you can produce MUCH MUCH MORE DOPAMINE and other chemicials which naturally means, it is now MORE addictive again
     
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  4. Fixmybrain

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    We’re sexually active, and to an extent it does. Problem is, I’m always horny. Wish I had a normal sex drive like everybody else
     
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    That was very explanatory. This is exactly how I feel right now, so many maneuvers, obstacles, and confusion—but I’ll say I’m on the right path
     
  6. Alex1993

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    You have to dig deep bro! Start searching in yourself, find what is causing all this. It will take you some time but you can do it. Everything we go through, there’s always a reason behind it.
     
  7. InflammatoryResponse

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    when a buck is in rut, his body dumps more testosterone into his body in those 2 weeks than it does the entire rest of the year. the buck produces gallons of sperm because it MUST mate during that period so that the doe gives birth in the spring and the fawns have best chance of survival.

    a buck would NEVER fuck a doe out of season, do you know why bro? CONSCIENCE. he would not leave his children to die in the winter after being born out of season.

    it is remarkable how animals NEVER have sex out of rut season, which would endanger their offspring, leaving them to die in the winter
     
  8. fellowBrother

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    I honestly think that's normal bro. Guys get horny. I am 86 days in and I am ridiculously horny. I mean you dont have social anxiety obviously, and you have sex with your gf so no PIED. Do you watch porn on a regular basis?
     
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  9. Fixmybrain

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    Yeah, but it's on my mind constantly where I want it with my GF 24/7 and no porn but have fapped some recently. I'm dong NoFap to get rid of some unwanted thoughts and to control my sex drive etc.
     
  10. DeepParkWater

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    Thats a little extreme you dont need to get rid of lust, just not.let it control you no?
     
  11. fellowBrother

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    Well stopping porn will be a huge fix. And If you are addicted then prepare for a crazy ride. Because when I stopped masturbating I hit a 30 day flatline and had 0 urge to have sex or anything. You might need to let your gf know. I would definitely not masturbate though man. That can hurt your girls self of steem and she may wonder why shes not enough for you. Do you crave masturbation after sex? thats a clear sign of addiction
     

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