I get an erection but can’t cum

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Sihmba02, Apr 24, 2019.

  1. Sihmba02

    Sihmba02 New Fapstronaut

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    I'm dating girl who gives me the best oral. I can maintain an erection but I can’t cum. I feel myself getting close but never get to climax. Can anyone help me or give me ideas on this topic?
     
  2. Vandermeer

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    Start a streak? Read the introduction infos? Set a counter? Join a challenge?
     
  3. Peter808

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    This is called delayed ejaculation (DE) for short. Cut masturbation for a while. You're probably desensitizing yourself. Cut out porn too because it may lead to PIED. Believe me you don't want that.

    I've suffered from DE most my life , orgasming only when I was masturbating. It just now getting better in the last 2-3 years. I'm 45 man. The current GF I have (been dating 5 years) is the first one that actually made me come with hand job. Never experience cumming from a blow job... Yet.
     
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  4. AlexWillDoIt

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    So much hope reading your post. Hope my PIED get’s better too. My bf made me cum after a week without PMO but the week after was already a “fail”. Stopped completely MO for 2 weeks now.
     
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  5. aerokus

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    Keep it up guys! I suffer from DE as well and I can assure you it does get better once you cut out porn and masturbation.
    First you'll be able to O from handjobs, then soon enough blowjobs, and finally sex. It all depends on your level of addiction, how long it's been going on for, but usually blowjobs come within 2 months, and sex within 3/4 months.
     
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  6. Theamos

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    I have always had problems getting off with a bj. I have also been with a lot of guys that have the same problem
    They have to be really good
    I don’t have problem other ways
     
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  7. AlexWillDoIt

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    Thanks so much!!! I hope to get over it! I admit that abstaining from hard porn is incredibly difficult, especially from the second week, but it’s 15 days of no M and no PMO! Hj already worked! Hope to get to the next step.
     
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  8. AlexWillDoIt

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    Just could get off with bf in gloryholes without seeing anything, but that doesn’t count for me.
     

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