I dream of.....<positive goal>

^ I agree. There are tangible benefits, so long as one is striving to further themselves as they do it.

This is the crux of it. That's an awesome avatar photo dude, props for having the balls to show your face; no chance I'll be posting a photo of myself on here

 

Surprisingly I'm more comfortable posting my photo here rather than any other social media. People here are kind than elsewhere
Btw cool name you have there. Is that your real name?

 

I wish, hahah... I was introduced to Hindu philosophy about 6 years ago, started meditating and practicing japa; within 6 months I quit drinking, for good, and stopped using chemicals about a year after that. Through that phase I studied as much as I could about advaita philosophy and as a consequence, am now thoroughly obsessed with it.
I first came across the notion of abstinence from sexual activity through reading Patanjali's yoga sutras and the Upanishads... It was a few years again before I came across Nofap, and it's been about 2-3 years until I've been able to reach a state of mind in which I feel confident in combining my love for Indian philosophy and the secular notion of Nofap and abstinence from pornography. The choice of username reflects that, I tried for Hanuman but it was already taken

 

I dream of being free from fear of others and being able to go out and make new friends like I did back when I was in my 20’s.

 

I dream of being able to be friends, just friends, with a whole bunch of gorgeous girls like I was in my teenage years. That's something that has definitely been missing for me, there's so much you miss out on being afraid of talking to women and missing out on their perspective.

 

That's a wonderful goal mate!!

 

Outstanding one! Yes I want that too.

 

I dream of making a can of pringles that never goes empty.

 

I pmo everyday and concentrate and crush my goals daily how does this happen then buddy?

 

I dream of being a successful writer, where I'm able to make a living out of the things I want to write. Seems unlikely, but hey.

 

I dream of getting to university and getting my driver's license

 

Well all of us are addict to pmo but the intensity of our addiction differs. Some might pmo once in a week while some might do it twice a day. The kind of porn you watch and how your brain sees it is aslo a important factor to be noted here. We cannot compare one person's addiction to another. If you are able to do all your work with your addiction that's good but some of us are not able to cope up with our daily life when we are pmoing every other day. I hope this some what celars what I'm trying to say.

 

Yet if you didn't PMO you would have more time and more energy, for sure. It's not about "I can harm myself and still get to be succesful so what's the problem with harming myself?", but instead not harming yourself because it's not needed and for sure you would be and do better without it. I can PMO 3 times a day and write good books as I have the talent to do so and make a decent living with it, but if I wouldn't PMO for sure I would have more time to write more and better books and I would have more energy to do other things like music or webpages so my business would grow bigger maybe in the future being I able to fund a company.

I dream of having a million puppies and giving them to kids with cancer sometimes, it would be so cute. :3 Right now I have only one puppy yet I know for sure in the future I will be able to do this.

 

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Damn that would be so cool to be just friends with girls. I dream of this too. I never actually ever had female friends in my life. I wish I do in the near future.

 

It takes 15 mins everyday so it wouldnt matter. I actually have the same energy after and I dont feel bad for doing it. But everyone is different I concluded that nofap is a placebo and mostly losers thing they think they will turn into a winner bad boy by not masturbating its funny. Peace out I am outta this forum and my advice is dont kid yourselves like an idiot pmo isnt that bad. If it wasnt, vast majority of successfull people would be in this forum not buncha losers waiting to get some pussy lol pathetic

 

Take care buddy and have a wonderful life