I dont find girls that attractive after nofap

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Hanumesh Santhanam, Jun 10, 2019.

  1. Hanumesh Santhanam

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    Im on day 15 of nofap. I dont know why its happening but suddenly i dont find women attractive. I dont even have interest in watching porn. I dont know if its the flatline or its just that porn and making out with an actual woman ( as I did a month back when i realized i have pied) are like chalk and cheese.

    Its so scary. :(

    I cant understand this.
     
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  3. Hanumesh Santhanam

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    No bro. Im not. Jacked off to porn for years. And i dont find guys attractive.
     
  4. Latvian Saiyan

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    Then chill the fuck out xD Let things go with the flow. Dont force shit. Wait and dont stress. Time and nature is the medicine.
     
  5. Tiger uppercut!

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    You probably have hit flatline. Don’t worry...your libido will come roaring back eventually. It just takes time.
     
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  6. Hanumesh Santhanam

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    Thankyou fellas... much appreciated
     
  7. This. You're in flatline man. It'll come back in time.

    Either that or you're 100% gay.
     
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  8. Pexton

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    The sudden ending of a harmful addiction is just how it works ( you have possibility to read about that on forum in ,, Reboot" section). You have to wait, play sports and think positively. Everything will be like before, you're definitely not gay, it does not make sense. Simply, the brain has to get rid of the addiction. This addiction in fact is the constant need to get dopamine from different perverse things. Also real girls, except for rare cases, do not look like sex-dolls that you see in porn. For me it's hard for me to start rebooting (sex thoughts about watched porn movies always defeat me) but every day without addiction is a great motivation to do it further. But the beginning is the most important ...

    Anyway, a properly conducted reboot can do wonders, there are many such examples. It is worth copying and enjoying life. Libido will come back when your brain will again search for sexual content in the real world and not in virtual pornography. It must take a while, but the prize is worth it, the world is full of beautiful girls that the man wants to admire.

    When your brain will be repaired, life will be joyful again.

    Good Luck
     
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  9. Veritech

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    Your sexual relationship with porn is all too consuming. You are the one in charge and the women of porn are subservient to you. They will do what you want and when you want it. If you do not like what you see, simply discard and find the next titillating sex object or genitals of your choice.

    Not the same with a real woman.

    You need to fully break your sexual relationship with porn before you can have a connecting relationship with a real woman.
     
  10. Hanumesh Santhanam

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    Thanks a lot bro. I hope the reboot works for me. Im not gay. I have no interest in men. When i see a hot girl, Im like wow she is hot; but my dick just doesnt react.

    You are right. Its probably flatline. But imo it fould be either of 2 things:

    1) Its the fact that making out with a girl is very very different to watching porn. It was the first time I made out in my life and it felt like an alien experience. It was not as great as I imagined it to be quite simply because i had no benchmark to measure it against barring porn which is completely different. Its like if you give me a girl, I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO DO WITH HER BODY.

    2) Or as mentioned its the flatline. I think its more likely because along with the lack of attraction to women, its also that I dont crave porn and I dont have major urges. In the first 4 5 days of my journey i was dying to shag. Then suddenly it all just went away. I felt a lot better.

    I hope it all works out. Thankyou for your reply.
     
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  11. Hanumesh Santhanam

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    Thanks everyone for your reply!
     

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