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I can't I fucking can't

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Deleted Account, Feb 22, 2019.

  1. I been trying to quit PM for 1 year...
    I go for 1-2 weeks and I relapse...
    I can't beat this shit sometimes urges dominate my brain like I don't have control over it.

    I need serious help please I can't keep with this shit in my life
     
  2. ReclaimedLife

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    How old are you mate?
    Did you have good sex yet?
     
  3. bigboibez

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  4. recon117

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    I would start with cutting out Porn. With this you will automatically reduce Masturbation. Do this long enough and then you are ready to cut out Masturbation. Cold Turkey is fine but most people will probably relapse at some point which is absolutely ok. They are complaining that they are missing something. With my way you don't have this feeling of missing out. Relapse belongs to the learning process. Take small goals and challenges and make sure you succeed. It's better to succeed with many small steps than make a huge one.

    I hope I could help you :)!
     
  5. I'm 22 yo, I had a gf back when I had 15 and we had S everyday, we broke up at 17 and I became so addicted to this shit...
    Since then I been into PM.

    There is a point where I can't control my brain to not P. Damn is so fucking hard.
    Gotta be strong
     
  6. Vengia

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    You shouldn't have free time. You should always be busy.
     
  7. I work all day like a damn mfuka.
    There is a day in my streak where just one trigger blows my mind and I can't control my brain.
     
  8. ReclaimedLife

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    You are in the peak of your libido, it is going to be more difficult for you then it already is for me. And it already is very fucking difficult for me.
    You need to see it as an investment for your future, just like as if you would invest in shares. They arent going to go up right away, it will take time and they will probably go down at first.
    But if you keep holding them long enough you will be rewarded with a better financial situation.

    The same is true with nofap. You need to see the goal at the end and commit yourself to a better future, with some sacrifices in the now.

    You can either have a hard life now, and an easy life later or
    You can have an easy life now, watch porn and m/o, but later get a girlfriend and might not be able to get your dick up anymore. The choice is yours.

    What do you want for your future?
     
  9. Perfetto_iN_2743

    Perfetto_iN_2743 Fapstronaut

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    Ты просто забываешь о том, что нужно держаться. Не оставайся на одном месте, встань и выйди в люди. А если не можешь, просто займись физическими упражнениями

    И помни, ты не один...
     

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