i cant forget my ex

Meet new women. When you have an abundance of awesome women in your life it's very hard to feel overly attached to any one of them. When you meet a girl for the first time, or get in a relationship, or spend several years together etc you get feelings of attachment that make it feel like someone is the one, or the only person you can feel that way about. When you constantly surround yourself with lots of awesome women, you'll find yourself starting to develop that feeling non-stop, and quickly you come to the realisation, that it's just that, a feeling. A chemical response in your brain. No-one is wired to love one person, lose them, and never love again. Soon you'll be feeling those same feelings with someone else and you'll start to wonder how you were so caught up on your ex for so long.

Been there, done that, I was very overly attached to a couple of girls I dated and one in particular it took me years to get over. When it finally happened though it happened just like clicking my fingers. It happened when I met someone else that gave me that spark.

So go out and get meeting some girls. You don't have to sleep with or date any of them either, just make some female friends and you'll find those familiar feelings arising for new girls that aren't your ex.

 

Spend time with friends. Play sports. Listen to podcasts. Pursue your passions.

That's what I did when me and my ex broke up. Sometimes I think of her but only briefly.

Fortunately for me it was a LDR so I didn't see her around. But I think if you're pursuing your passions you won't be thinking of her.

Avoid things that remind you of her. If certain songs remind you of her don't listen to them. If certain places remind you of her if possible avoid such places. There this one song that reminds me of my ex and I just don't listen to it.

One passion of mine is history. At the moment I'm listening to a series of podcasts about the history of American Presidents. I find it fascinating and want to find out more about each president after listening to the podcast. Not really thinking about any girls when I'm listening to the podcast or researching US Presidents.

 

You don't have to forget about her and let me tell you that she didn't forget you either if the relationship was meaningful.

Here's the thing though, regardless if you want to meet new women or not, you should be focused on becoming the strongest version of yourself right now. Use your ex as fuel!

When you become better people will start to love and admire you left and right, you'll be too busy to even think of anything that makes you feel bad. So find out what you dislike about yourself and work on it and you'll attract new love interests or even your ex.

 

I agree with the others who posted above me. One thing I'll add: get some counseling. Talking with a professional will do wonders for your life.

 

she don't deserve you.. she forgot you .. be a man .. don't think about her again OK .. don't care about her again .. will you lose your life for a woman like this ? why ? there are a lot of women better than her and you are better than many guys too .. send this love to yourself to your life .. all men fall and failed in love but life still continued .. remember we did mistakes to learn and we failed to be successful.

 

you are not alone! stay strong with your streak!

 

Rejection happens to all of us. No reason to stew over one girl.

 

i have had the same situation too.... she left me and yet i still think about her.... it causes an emptiness that leads me to pmo but hold on.... ur life didnt end when she left... so be just like me.. i decided to accept that and moved on. you've just got to make ur self better after this. ur life. stay thinking about her as other people evolve or evolve and be a greater man without her.... you should also begin to accept that FLY OR DIE; YOU'RE ON YOUR OWN. doesn't matter who stayed and left. its ur life only one. make it count