I broke my porn habit but I still look at women objectifyingly?

JamesSmith · Jun 20, 2016

Kallosthenos said: ↑

Congratz on going so far with this! Keep going, embrace the journey and reboot my friend!

Realistically speaking, since the beginning of time, we are drawn towards the opposite sex. In my opinion, it's okay to look at girls (it's just the direction of your pupils). Of course, there's a point of going too far, where is the line drawn? You probably guessed it, it has something to do with your mind.

You see a girl and you find her attractive, good. Acknowledge it and move on, maybe a little voice in your head will go "wow". It's all fine in my opinion. When do things start going bad? Where do you cross the line? When you use the image you perceived for sexual fantasies and you start having sex with her in your head, without even knowing her or having any form or connection (this just makes things worse), you're objectifying her as a sexual object and that is not good.

Those attractive girls are no different from regular girls, nor are they different from you. We are all PEOPLE with personalities, lives and many other values! They are far more than objects for sex, they are far more than their bodies and looks. Look at them as people! Go talk with them, interact with them, communicate, form friendships and relationships... that's when you "subjectify" the world in front of you and develop a good, clean mindset! Not only will your social life get better, but you'll become a better person. Good luck!
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I agree completely with this point. This guy has it down.

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I broke my porn habit but I still look at women objectifyingly?

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