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I am new and I have some questions

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by mrpatrick, Mar 29, 2017.

  1. mrpatrick

    mrpatrick Fapstronaut

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    Hello people, I am new in here. I am currently 19y/o. I am neither a anxious, antisocial guy nor a extravert one. But I used to fap a lot. I study in another city so when I'm in my dorm I used to fap once in every 2-3 days but when I am home sometimes I used to fap even 3-4 times a day.

    8 months ago I stopped fapping because I was going to go to poland to see my girlfriend at the time. And I didn't fap for 10 days. I just did that because I wanted our sex to be perfect.

    Anyway, at 26th of march I decided to stop fapping after I saw this website. But I have some questions.

    First of all, sometimes I get really hard. I get hard for some fetishes I had, I get hard for something I see (a hot girl, a photo). And I get really hard when I'm going to sleep and when I wake up. I never touch my penis, but does this diet requires me to not getting hard? Because I literally can't solve this instead of just waiting for it to pass. Is this harmful?

    Secondly, Can I have sex? Or does that count as a relapse? Or can I get a handjob from a girl?

    Lastly, my biggest motivation for stopping masturbation is my acnes. When I stopped for 10 days it was gone. And I want them to go away again, really bad. If I get hard this frequent and If I have sex, can I still get a clear skin?

    Thank you. Please answer
     
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  2. Marr

    Marr Fapstronaut

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    To answer your questions
    1) Erections are completely normal
    2) Sex and handjobs are fine

    You're 19 years old, so all this acne and erections you got going are completely normal. The only rule you should have is this: DON'T WATCH PORN PLEASE. Also, don't use masturbation for fun or to cope with emotions. It's a bad habit and if you manage it now at 19 you'll be so much better and won't end up like most of us on this site. Take it from us more older guys and manage it at a young age. If you're so horny and haven't had sex in a while then fuck it rub one out in the shower lol but don't make it a habit and don't fantasize.

    Also, my personal advice about fetishes. Stay away and don't develop them by fantasizing about them.
    Don't let your dick make life decisions for you Mr Patrick.
     
  3. mrpatrick

    mrpatrick Fapstronaut

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  4. Noobotron52

    Noobotron52 Fapstronaut

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    It's awesome that you are getting into this at such a young age! Way tho get ahead of the game! I wish I had taken action a long time ago
     

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