I am in love with a transsexual

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Iamback2018, Jan 14, 2019 at 11:53 AM.

  1. Iamback2018

    Iamback2018 New Fapstronaut

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    I don't know what to do!

    I don't know how to handle this situation! Is this normal? Does it make me gay?
     
  2. Iamback2018

    Iamback2018 New Fapstronaut

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    I am not sure if it is just my porn addiction if I am really in love. I have been off the porn for almost two weeks now and have been avoided her texts for the past few days now because i don't know what to do! Am i just overreacting???
     
  3. Myfortress

    Myfortress Fapstronaut

    Stay on your reboot. After 90 days you can think about what your preferences are. You are being tempted to relapse. Have you had sex with this person before?
     
  4. SirErnest

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    Yup two weeks isn't that much. Most people say they need months away from PMO etc. So..love can wait.
     
  5. I'mPauInJapan

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    Man, you're saying big words here, "love". If you feel that way I have to advice on going on with her. It actually surprises me that as a trans porn watcher you're not objectifing her and seeing her as a fuck toy, but instead talking about love. If you're sure it's love, go for it. If your penis works with her and you have feelings for her, what's the point on doing a 90 days of no sex? Just quit porn and masturbation.
     
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  6. Lost In The Echo

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    I don't want to say stupid things, but in my perspective i will never date a trans person. I did have a brother for 14 year's, now it's a she (a girl) so my sister is a trans person i love my sister seriously, but my sister and many other trans people i know becouse of my sister. Are not stable at all and do have a lot of psychical problems (I'M NOT SAYING EVERY TRANS PERSON IS THE SAME) but that's in the short my perspective of view from my own experience ofcourse. I wish you the best of luck with or without her. ;)
     
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  7. Iamback2018

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    yes three times and the sex is fantastic but i don't know if i could ever go out in public with her. Is this just my sex addiction? I can't be in love. I am confused.
     
  8. I'mPauInJapan

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    Yeah, I have to jump on this train though... Most trans I've known are emotionally unstable and they consume insane amounts of porn. I had a Facebook where I only had trans friends and they were always uploading pics on their undies. They generally have an unhealthy relationship with their sexuality.
    But I don't know about that girl you talk, so...
     
  9. I'mPauInJapan

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    Lol, why can't you be in love? Tell me what is it that you feel that you love about her, let's see if it is love...
     
  10. Coolyorky

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    Most women who are born women aren’t stable mate hahaha

    Seriously though if it’s genuine love you should see her. Would it work physically is another question
     
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  11. Myfortress

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    I think you're just excited about getting a real life version of something you've been fantasizing about. I would stay in your reboot. No PMO for at least 2 months then re-evaluate.
     
  12. 4DCreator

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    Of course, it is only your sex addiction, especially oxytocin connection with a person you had sex with. How you can say that you are in love with a person and you can't go outside with her because you would be probably ashamed or you would be worried about what other people would think of you. What sort of nonsense is that? Make sure you understand word "love" ;)
     
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  13. Hoots

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    If you can't picture yourself being in public with her as you've said, then it is not true love. Imagine a woman said she loved you but was ashamed to be with you in public, would you feel like she loved you? I think not.
     
  14. ccml

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    Why would being in love with a trans girl be bad at all? That wouldn't make you gay (or is it a trans boy?), and if you were gay or bi, who cares anyway.
    Either case, I don't see the need for a reboot from that fact alone. Quitting P and M is good for anyone, I think. I also think it's good not to fuck too much and date more at the beginning of a relationship, so that you can get to know each other a bit more. That will help you make a better bonding, or keep you from starting a relationship that wouldn't work. But that's not a reboot, right?
    If you're in love and are considering to date, you should start by just stop trying to find what's wrong with it. Don't date while you're unsure, because you may end up hurting her badly. And don't give a fuck about what others may say. That will make you very unhappy, regardless of your sexuality or whatever.
     
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  15. Clarke

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    Try sucking her dick
     
  16. Invencible Under The Sun

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    I've been with a trans girl once she was just like a girl, her voice and body was just like a girl. If you saw her on the street you wouldnt even think she was a shemale. I really thought she was cute and very kind and happy person. She just looked like a beautiful girl, the sex was great but then i asked myself... would i really date her? Is that what i want? What i need in my life? First of all, love is everything, if it was about love you guys would have been together already. Love is not doubt, maybe you are just starting to fall in love. But like the guy said, and i can assure you that, most of these transexual girls are not emotionally unstable, they have a lot of problems, their sexual health is not that good, and they keep hurting themselves. Specially if they are escorts. Most of them are. They mutilate their bodies to look like girls taking a lot of hormones and doing surgeries till there is no going back. Maybe you were curious and had sex with her and are feeling needy and she was talking to you and now you feel that way. Just keep doing nofap you will find the answer you seek.
     

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