I am 24 and i never had a girlfriend

Every alpha is a beta in one point in their lives.

 

Man, it was a joke.

 

Alphas dont do jokes, neither do I : )

 

True statement! Women are attention seekers (especially the young ones) and the less you give them your attention and approval, despite their attractiveness, the more insecure they will get and try to get those things out of you instead. This becomes a lot easier with age as your maturity, confidence and status is increasing. The older you get, the more attention they will try to get from you, desperately seeking your validation and approval.

 

I'm 37 and have never had a girl friend. I know how to meet girls, bed them, and start a 1-2 week relationship but I don't know how to get past the 2 week barrier. I have not given up hope, and one day soon I will break that barrier and get a real girlfriend.

 

And warning for the future, with your new girlfriend and/or wife. Women want and need that attention in a relationship too, and if they dont get it from you, they'll go and find it from another place. Like the saying goes: "There's allways a beutyful woman somewhere, whos boyfriend is tired of f***ing her". A d believe me, theres allways a horny guy who will use that situation. I made that mistake with my 13years long relationship. You get so used to her and take things for granted, neglegting her need to be wanted and desired. And if you have porn addiction, then you can add there, that her sexual needs have not been met allso.

 

Women are falling for men that are confident and are healthy; they will approach such men. Reason: evolution. They will bear and raise the children so first they want to make sure that their offspring will turn out healthy and that she can rely on her partner in case of need.

Most women do not like wimpy boys that cry for their attention. They don't want you as their child, you're your momma's child and if you didn't leave home yet (metaphorically) then she's not gonna visit. She wants to find a guy to have children with, not to feed you, clothe you and bathe you.

Most women are put off by unhealthy men, be it through looks or mentally, but mostly mentally. They will not put up with men that do not take the time to care for themselves, because they realise they will not be able to rely on such men.

So if you want to be approached by women, you first need to take care of yourself (not like alpha, neither like beta). You must show you are a pillar of support, you are a rock for your friends.

I am 37, until recently I had super nasty acne my entire life and I have a lazy eye. Yet I had several 4+ years relationships and a few intense short term relationships. I almost never approach the girls. I failed recently in a relationship and I was dumped, because I became needy, I was chasing. Fearing I will lose her, I got anxiety, depression, lost a lot of weight and work was adding to my frustrations. I looked constantly sad and unhealthy; she dumped me. I was mentally incapable of being coherent around her, because of my fear of loss/rejection and because I felt inadequate. When I was in that state, I was not get approached by any girls.

Now I am bouncing back after that relationship, gained weight and gave the time to me: nofap.com, books, learn new things, spend more time again with my friends, quit old job, starting a new one. It's very likely soon a girl or two will approach me.

 

@properWood You are approaching the age of peak sexual market value for men now, which lasts way into the 40s. So it will get even easier with the ladies, if you manage to pull yourself together.

 

Sorry but that's nonsense. If you try and date 20 year old women as a 40-something, you'll be seen as a creep in 19/20 cases. Man is usually the older one in a relationship but not by much.

 

Since when do we give a fuck about that?

There are only two groups, who deeply care about this:

• 20something single males with still low SMV ("VirginWarrior")
• 30something single females with already low SMV (missed the marriage window)

Both the 20 years old lady and the 40 years old gentleman are not part of these groups. You know what this means?

 

Wrong. The one who cares - who defines the creepiness status, in fact - is the 20 yo girl.

I'm not sure what world do you live in but in the one I inhabit the overwhelming majority of pretty girls gets snatched by guys roughly their age.

This idea that you'll get a harem after your first hairs turn grey is obviously false. Who came up with it and why does anyone take it seriously?

 

Hey man!


your post breaks my heart as I can not imagine not having the opposite sex for connection or sexual activity.

but lucky for you, there is a permanent solution for you to do something about it. learn PICKUP and become a PUA!!!!
it will change your sex life forever, at first you might struggle like everyone else who trys learning game but eventually you'll get it

start with watching videos on YouTube. id recommend RSDtyler infields on youtube. they'll change your perspective about dating life.

ENJOY AND GOODLUCK

 

No guy lusts over a 30 year old experienced woman. They lust over 18 year old fertile inexperienced virgins. Thats the holy grail.

On that same token, no woman, given the option, gets wet over a 20 year old dude with high school game and dad's money.

Best example I can give is that movie (Legend) with Tom Hardy where he's an English gangster; he rolls up to a girl's house in a nice suit, appearing to be in his 30s, and pulls the young girl with ease. Its yin and yang; young, feminine, and submissive strongly attracts older, masculine, and dominant. Can’t argue biology.

No way a 20something guy would be able to pull that kind of women.

Of course this only applies to guys that actually reach that level of SMV in older age. Peak SMV men are rare.

 

You forgot the nasty, unattractive and jealous feminists who made themselves look that way by heir own free will. Since no high-value men will give them any attention (as they act masculine and don't put any effort into making themselves more attractive) they will become very envious, jealous and bitter, not only on the men who prefer younger, more attractive women but especially on those women who steal their attention.
Women can be incredibly nasty, envious, evil and deceitful to each other in such a way that we men will never comprehend.

 

It should mentioned that in our hookup culture it is assumed, that all interactions between yin and yang are purely sexual aiming at the first night/one night stand as the highest goal.

This is another reason, why there is a preference in women for cultivated men, because these can actually provide an interesting experience beside mattress exercise. On the other hand a young girl can provide the man with untainted feminine energy, something a 30something activist with colored hair isn't able to.

 

I'm almost 40 , so yeah. Apparently there's women on NoFap you would think they would talk to the guys on here

 

@Mistercroquant
I was virgin till 27. and then I got raped by a few girls in college(emotionally) consequently causing me to lose my mind.

Its very hard. U make a choice. U go through pain and challenge and tears and blood and sweat and guts! Or you stay safe and weak and have no offspring, and nobody will remember your name.

=)



and what choice is that anyways?

 

Sounds similar to what I was going through as well during my collegiate years which I never want to turn back to. Those are horrible years for young men as their SMVs are still close to the bottom of the barrel while women are on their peak. Although, I was bitter and despised many of those women at the time, I don't waste my energy on them today as I nowadays (at age 31) live well and start to age like a fine wine with a steadily increasing SMV for every year while most of those women quickly lose it along with their former beauty and looks and start to become complacent, fat, unattractive and bitter.
Karma is a biatch and the best thing you can do as a man is to live well and simply reject those former h**s as the plague if they beg for you to be with them. No man of value wants a woman way past her prime who have gone many rides on the CC but prefer the younger and fresher ones instead (since that's how we are wired).

 

@Angus McGyver Very awesome man you have now turned around some people from hades into 491 days!!!!!!!!! Impressive... I wish I had this done from college but Ill get it done.

Agree 100% here. Like... these women at their sexual value peaks!!! the year of like 18-28 for ladies = can do wtf ever they want! but they are wasting years on the cock carousel! Drinking sex fuel and their fertile years at the expense of loving ambitious men who want just a family!?!?! I Don't know that was me anyways. GOt my heart broke and spitted and crushed and burned and annihilated from existence... and nobody cared a piss.

Yeah right I thought that sehx = the holy sacrament and women = angels!

@Mistercroquant Take it from me Women are nothing like this shit. U want a good family woman who humble who love kids and want a family and is a virgin! OR has had a few partners only. Once they going 2 college and can screw any man who they want on drunk fueled sex parties she has become damaged beyond repair and is no longer viable. Make ur ass strong. And brace and smart and wise. GO for oldschool style. get married. Sex is spiritually powerful! Can really hurt you if you only want sehx and this woman who is promiscuous will take u and dump ua nd break ur heart when she ahs no more use. Like Emperor Palpatine.

AVOID THIS FUCKING TRAP!