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  1. Joey101

    Joey101 Fapstronaut

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    Hello! I’ve struggled with porn for quit some time and have been fapping most of my life. I’m 21. I’ve always known porn was bad for you and I’ve never really wanted it in my life. I’m also a Christian, so it’s definitely something I don’t want in my life. But until recently I’ve also been learning a lot about the harmful effects of masterbation. I’ve been trying to get porn out of my life for a few years now but never stopped fapping. So now, for the first time in a long time I’m going to not only stop porn, I’m going to stop fapping as well. I’m 4 days in so far. I’m not sexually active and I don’t plan on having sex until I am married because of my Christian beliefs. So fapping with or without porn was my sexual release. So not having any kind of sexual release until I get married (who knows when that will be) is kind of scary. But I know I can do it with Gods help and the help from you guys. I love this site and the community here! I would love any adivice from anyone, Christian or not. Thanks for your support and letting me join the community!
     
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  2. lifetraveler

    lifetraveler Fapstronaut

    Joey101 - you have come to the right place. As a Christian, I knew that PMO was not right, but i justified it anyway. If you read my journal you will get an understanding of my warped reasoning. Anyway - not only did it cloud my relationship with God, it destroyed my mind in many ways. Do not for a moment think you are missing something if you stop PMO, that is a lie straight from Satan. A true man will focus all of his desires on his wife only, and that will be blessed. Anything else is the road to ruin. The wait will be worth it.
     
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  3. Joey101

    Joey101 Fapstronaut

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    Thank you for the encouragement! Good to talk to other Christians with this problem.
     
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  4. lifetraveler

    lifetraveler Fapstronaut

    We are all sinners. Thank God for His grace.
     
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  5. Joey101

    Joey101 Fapstronaut

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    Amen brother!
     
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  6. God will give you the grace to perform His will. God bless you.
     
  7. Protagoras

    Protagoras Fapstronaut

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    Welcome my brother in Christ. Great to have you here. HERE are some things helping me.
     
  8. dwalk77

    dwalk77 Fapstronaut

    Welcome Joey! I'm also Christian, and I share your belief of giving up sex until marriage. If you haven't already, I'd recommend reading some posts of others' here and starting a daily journal. See you around
     
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