How to tell my Girlfriend I am suffering from PIEd

Simple. Be honest. Be humble. If she can’t respect your honesty like that, then why be with her?

And if you feel afraid & need to hide...then why should she be with you?

So just make time to tell her, say your words and let things happen.

Pull the pin from the grenade and see if it explodes. No other way dude

 

Hi brother.

For this problem I recommend the practice recommended by the Stoics and the Buddhists.

When you have something dear to you, imagine yourself losing it frequently. Visualize yourself losing it, visualize all the ways it could happen. Take some time to accept that it has happened. Come to know that it can happen at any time. Become familiar with that idea. There is never any guarantee that a thing which is currently yours will still be yours one day, one week, or one year from now.

You can even take this one step further and you can assume that what is yours is already gone. There is a little story and it goes something like this:

When you realize that your girlfriend is the glass, and the glass is already broken (she is already gone), then you will not fear losing her. Instead you will only appreciate the time you have with her, and when it is her time to go, you will say, "Of course," and she will be on her way, and you will be on your way.

I am sorry that this is hard to accept, but this is how things are my friend.

As for how to tell her about your PIED, maybe you don't have to tell her, you can show her. Maybe she is perceptive enough to notice it herself. It shouldn't be a difficult thing to notice, right? When you are having trouble making an erection, I think she will notice this. Then you can tell her that you think it is like this because you are watching too much porn. Simple.

Good luck to you.