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How to react to shitty people.

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by Jungler, Jan 23, 2017.

  1. Deadlihood

    Deadlihood Fapstronaut

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    OP, next time, stuff her baby into the overheard compartment and walk away.
     
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  2. Enki

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    like for your signature
     
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  3. I Free I

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    I would of done the above to her.... lol, jk jk but In all seriousness, I would of said something back and defended myself... to a certain degree just because she's a women BUT I will say you cannot let that negativity in your mind... it happened, it's done... move on. The feeling you have towards a situation like that usually diminishes with time. Say no to the poison in your mind ...
     
  4. I remember one quote ...
    Never argue with stupid people. They will only bring you down to their level and then beat you by their experience.
     
  5. Physicist

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    walk away

    easiest thing ever to do. And the most effective.
     
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  6. Hiraeth

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    Life-Rule-Nr.1 : Don't treat people that can't be treated seriously and don't behave maturely, serious.

    Rule Nr.2: If you are witty, give her a witty comeback.
    Rule Nr.3: If you aren't witty ignore her. It will infuriate her.
    Rule Nr.4: Stand up for yourself when it really matters not when some unimportant person wants to scratch your ego.
    Rule Nr.5: It doesn't matter what strangers think or say about you. They will be gone forever and nothing will change for your life, no matter what they say.
    Rule Nr.6: Let them drown in their own sea of negativity, don't drown together with them.



    About the witty comebacks:
    Comebacks heavily depend on their circumstances.
    As a general thing you can say:"I didn't ask for your opinion."
    Or:"I will think about it"
    In many situations.

    Keep in mind, many people are creatures made by their circumstances. They will vent their frust and problems at the first good possibility.
    Don't take it personal. People's behaviour reflects their inner world.
    Shitty people feel shitty. Even if they don't admit it.
    It's nothing personal against you. Try to not be sensitive.
     

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