how to make friends when you dont seem to click with anyone

Sounds like you're working in the wrong place. It doesn't sound like a healthy work environment. You might even be in the wrong line of work. At least, don't try to befriend your coworkers here. Find friends outside of work.

 

Search for friends outside your job!

 

I’m struggling with this too. I think it might be mostly them, but also a bit of you (and me in my life).

I think we’re used to creating distance between us and others. So it’s possible they are exactly how you describe them, but it’s also possible they might be less scary.

I’m trying to learn how to socialize with everyone even the ones I’m not into, cuz it’s apart of my recovery process to learn how to be social. I’m thinking that hanging out with my homophobic heavy drinker coworkers isn’t very fun for me, but it’s also a good team building exercise.

I’m still learning and have very little experience but this is my current idea about hanging with people in my life who I don’t like but are going to be there regardless.

Out of everyone at my job there’s only one person who I like. So aside from work functions I could see myself forming a friendship with her. But aside from that, I have to look elsewhere for real friendships.