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How to improve self confidence?

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by Devon Midkiff, Mar 19, 2017.

  1. Devon Midkiff

    Devon Midkiff New Fapstronaut

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    I find that when I would like to do something, such as talking to a girl or asking someone for anything. I am also a very quiet person unless I am around people I know. Is there any way to get out of this hole, because from my pov there is no escape.
     
  2. PlasticBoy

    PlasticBoy Fapstronaut

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    Same dude, i want to talk but words wont come out.
     
  3. MarkedProgress

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    Many years ago, there was this rule in the seduction community: The 3 seconds rule - you do not wait more than 3 seconds to go and approach the girl you want to talk to. Simply put, you just go for the kill.

    For sure in the first few times you do this you will feel nervous and won't have the best conversations. But in time you will feel more comfortable with the situation and you will change.

    Learn to do chit chat, about the weather and other random subjects that are happening at that moment, in time you'll get better.
     
  4. tHe...Ayushh

    tHe...Ayushh New Fapstronaut

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    Well...I have a small iDea..
    To decrease the urge for porn..
    I would suggest something I am using..
    .like
    ..write On h paper "WINNERS NEVER LOSE " and on another .."LOSERS NEVER WIN"..and paste it somewhere you keep looking at ..random times..

    .. so that whenever you feel the addiction you could get rid with it..


    Hope this hepl
    .helps
     
  5. Lyart

    Lyart Fapstronaut

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    Go read my awesome thread about "25 Tips on How to improve confidence"
     
  6. Aiyoshi

    Aiyoshi Fapstronaut

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    Work out.
    Develop a skill.
    Act confident.
     
  7. Lyart

    Lyart Fapstronaut

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    Wrong.

    BE confident!!

    Some people (Especially women) are super sensitive to fake confidence. They can smell it.
     
  8. Aiyoshi

    Aiyoshi Fapstronaut

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    You want people to be confident while having a closed body language and avoid eye contact?

    Act confident and confidence will grow over time.
     

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