How to get a wet dream

It truly is tough and I have also had that same feeling. I have wanted to have a release so bad. However, you gotta not concentrate so much on that urge. Try to occupy your time and focus on other things besides focusing on needing to have a release. Just know your body will have a release when your body feels the need, so yes nocturnal emissions are bound to happen during your time of not fapping. As to your other question, I do not usually have a wet dream until after 2 or 3 weeks pass.

 

The Last time I had a wet dream was after I hadn't masturbated for a month.

However it's not true that we can't control our dreams. You might want to look into some articles on 'Lucid Dreaming' several people have been able to induce a lucid dream, in which they were in almost total control of their dream. You may be able to lead yourself to a wet dream via the lucid dreaming process.

 

Wow, I had not even thought of the idea of having wet dreams. That will be interesting to have one in my late 30's. I've been fapping for so long that I've always given myself that release; nature has almost never had a chance. I think I've only had ONE wet dream in my lifetime and that was 24 years ago when I was about fourteen years old. Now I'm really interested in abstaining just to see if my body will naturally take take of itself by releasing naturally. Hang in there and keep us posted.

 

Hey Challenge.
I can totally relate. I've woken up just before climax several times on my streak and those urges in bed have definitely been the strongest urges I've had but you gotta resist man. The progress and benefits are absolutely worth it.

To answer your question, I had the first wet dream of my streak this morning, on day 20. But I'm sure that amount will vary by person.

Keep going! Stay strong!

 

I'm surprised you want a wet dream so bad, they usually increase urges to relapse for me. The way I took care of that was just to be comfortable with the fact that I'm not going to release. The wet dreams just happen, and if you don't O, then they WILL happen.

I noticed the morning after drinking/smoking heavily I almost always have a wet dream.

 

The first and only wet dream I had so far happened on the 38th day and it didn't worth it. The relase was weak, I didn't feel any different after it, I just had a messy bedsheet. Also there were some inconvenient extra urges the next day and the day after that. I hope it won't happen again. It's nothing but trouble.

 

Just a quickie to day I'm over 50 days without an O of any description at all (not even a wet dream) and I guess that basically whilst I have been on here I have totally re-framed my 'relationship' with sexual energy ('urges') and attitude towards sex in general etc (feeling REALLY liberated to be honest!) The main thing im learning to do is to re-direct the sexual energy inwards and upwards instead of dissipating (wasting!) it 'outwards', something people have been doing for thousands of years. Worth checking out?!?! See links below for some ideas...

http://www.nofap.org/forum/showthread.php?3356-Creative-use-of-sexual-energy-(life-changing!!)

http://www.nofap.org/forum/showthread.php?2468-A-way-to-deal-with-horniness-works-for-me

http://www.nofap.org/forum/showthre...s-it-will-help-you-instantly-and-dramatically

 

for me... 41 days was how long it took. the second came quickly on day 43. after that, i've not had any other wet dream yet.

one important point to me: don't crave it too much! if it happens, it happens! Before knowing about nofap, I used to crave having a wet dream so much that i would edge a lot hoping it would give me a wet dream... in the end all i had was massively tender testicles (blue balls) and a very difficult time trying to get to bed.

 

I just replied this thread last night and this morning I woke to discover my 3rd wet dream. Heh..