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How to deal w girls wanting sex with your pied?

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Deleted Account, Sep 3, 2017.

  1. There's this girl that's really attracted time and wants to have intercourse w me, I believe. I do too, but I can't (pied, damn shame). She keeps calling me at like 1230am-2am on thurs-Sat nights. I've been binging and antisocial lately (trying to get out, but people testing me) so I ignored the calls. She texted me just now and I took me 30 mins to reply. It turned out fine but we might be linking up later tonight (3 hours). So. She might not want to have sex, we're friends but she just really likes sex. I do too, but I cant. So I'm kinda just like fml rn
     
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  2. *that's really attractive
     
  3. Want_it_to_work_again

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    I hear you @wethebest. I'm in a similar situation. I have the opportunity to have sex with 2 women I know and I keep pushing them away, or making excuses, saying I'm too busy. Even with the help of ED medication I can barely get hard long enough to put in a very average sexual performance. It is so discouraging and humiliating (as if I need to tell that to another guy who has PIED) I'm holding off until I can reboot successfully. I really hope that refraining from PMO for 3 months works. Good luck to you!
     
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  4. Third_Eye

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    All I can say is that you should wait until you fully recover so you can be able to have your wants fulfilled.
     
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  5. Third_Eye

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    That shouldn't matter, because a healthy, loving relationship should be more important to the girl and to you.
     
  6. CompulsiveCrab

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    Maybe you need strong foreplay to get it up
     
  7. Poseidon

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    What do you know about relationships? You're a virgin who's anti-sex. :p
     
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  8. Third_Eye

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    I know that a relationship should have emotional and mental intimacy between the man and woman. I also believe that there should be respect between the man and woman in a relationship. And who cares if I'm a virgin? Do I deserve death for it? So what if you lost your virginity? Big deal? Do you want a parade for it? Do you want a trophy for it? Just like no one cares that I'm a virgin, no one cares that you lost your virginity. That's your business, and your business only. It's not needed to notify people about your sex life the different threads you had in the past.
     
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  9. CompulsiveCrab

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    I like that answer. However I'd like to add similar core values
     
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  10. Third_Eye

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    Like what?
     
  11. CompulsiveCrab

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    Maybe similar ambition, the want for improvement.
    Having the same theology would not hurt.
    I might look into political ideology to gauge their boundaries or morals.
     
  12. Third_Eye

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    That doesn't sound like a bad idea.
     
  13. If your dick isn't working then how about you stop putting yourself in situations where you need a working dick? For fuck sake, man.
     
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  14. Lol get outta here
     
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  15. Third_Eye

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    Losing your virginity is not the most important thing in the entire world, man.
     
  16. I've lost my virginity.
     
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  17. Third_Eye

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    Oh. But sex is not the most important thing, unless that's the way you're trying to have children
     
  18. Well yes later down the road. I'm doing nofap to lose my pied to have sex, gain confidence, lose social anxiety, and most importantly gain a healthy, sexual relationship. So.. that's why
     
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  19. Third_Eye

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    When I'm recovered from my PMO addiction, I'm gonna abstain from sex forever.
     
  20. Lmao. You gonna make me, Floppy?
     

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