How to avoid orgasm with partner?

End the relationship? If you try to avoid orgasm during sex you'll just feel worse afterwards, It would be like edging. If you avoid having sex altogether your partner may become dissatisfied and either cheat or end the relationship. Sex is just a part of most relationships, if you don't like it perhaps a relationship isn't for you.

 

You can avoid orgasm, if you don’t have sex.

 

If you love you partner, you wouldn’t force her to do something she wants, or something she is not capable at the moment.

Wouldn’t it be fare if she would have done it for you?

 

I am not sure having a relationship where you have sex, but don’t orgasm, are compatible. I didn’t try to research your age, history, or postings.
I guess there could be room for a short period of time, or a few sessions where you don’t orgasm during sex. I would say talk to your partner about how you’d like to abstain for a period of time as a reset. See if they are open to it.
Overall, the two best options are orgasming during sex, (assuming that’s not a big challenge and that’s why you want to avoid it) or just abstaining and starting back up once you are ready to orgasm.

 

I can relate ! I am at day 69 and have been seeing this girl for the last few weeks. We had sex for the first time when I was on day 53 hard mode and it was amazing, but the day after I definitely missed my energy; since then we have had sex 3 more times, 2 of which I chose to orgasm; that’s a first for me choosing not to orgasm . It’s been 8 days since our last encounter and I need to have a talk with her about the orgasm thing, because it is best to be honest; for right now anyway, I am really digging semen retention and the benefits that it is bringing into my life, and above all, your path to wellness must come first, as well as mine and everyone else; keep fighting the good fight, and you will know what to do!