How many people have you had sex with?

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Sense, Feb 24, 2019.

How many people have you had sex with?

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  8. 51-70

  9. 71-100

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  1. women really just want a tall guyn wit a square face and they will share the same if they have to
     
  2. Abetterbrain

    Abetterbrain Fapstronaut

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    Square face? Women must go moist at the sight of minecraft Steve! He’s face is REALLY square!
     
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  3. Sense

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    I'm 5ft 7 and have had more than my fair share of girlfriends -- the last one was 4 inches taller than me, 20 years younger than me and an ex model. She wasn't attracted to my money because I don't have any!

    Mindset dude, learn to speak it.
     
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  4. Sharksvv

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    I’m in the 13-20 tier but I can’t really be proud of it, they were all escorts that I visited during my lowest points. It was sex but it wasn’t really the sex that I know now with my SO.

    In terms of real sex that includes love and intimacy I’ve had sex with 1 woman which is my girlfriend.
     
  5. Coffee Candy

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  6. MonkeyDo

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    I've had 0 sex, and I'm not ashamed to admit it. I have had maybe 4 or 5 opportunities to have sex and each time it was me who chickened out. I accept responsibility for it. But I've grown since then and now I finally feel like I can say yes to sex when the opportunity is there.
     
  7. 4DCreator

    4DCreator Fapstronaut

    2 women for the whole life and both of them were my girlfriends. I don't have sex with strange people, and I am nearly 40 years old.
     
  8. +TenPercent

    +TenPercent Fapstronaut

    I put myself down as 31-40 (I'm 44yo, btw) but it really depends on what sexual acts count as "having sex".

    I had two girlfriends who only let me give them oral. And a lot of fooling around where genitals came into play, but didn't get to the level of penetrative sex . . .

    Most of that was in my 20's. I've had PIV with 2 women in the last 13 years and no sex at all in the last 4 . . .
     
  9. Angus McGyver

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    The destructive mindset of negativity, bitterness, resentment, anger and envy you seem to possess is caused by no one but yourself. It is a choice you make and no circumstance, trauma or previous experiences are the cause of it. It is only your own mindset and nothing else.
    How can I be so sure of that you might wonder?
    Because, I was that bitter person myself only 30 months ago and know how that mindset feeds into nothing more than more negativity, poor results, stagnation, anxiety, illness and one misfortune after the other.
    There is no one who can change it but yourself my friend!!
     
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  10. RandoCan

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    Had multiple chances but was never able to maintain an erection.
     
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  11. Septimus

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    I answered zero because I have never had actual sex -- intercourse -- with a woman, nor simulated it with a man. And I've had pretty limited sexual experience of any sort.

    That said, I have had a few encounters I hoped would end up there, and which involved some steps along the way, let's say. Certainly some sexual touching. And of course, I've consumed LOTS of porn, and I've done chat and cyber a lot, too.

    So I feel a little dishonest saying I'm a virgin, although that's true in a sense.
     
  12. ctr

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    I think there really is no rule. To say that porn addicts are all incels or are more promiscuous is very exaggerated. Sure, some might be, but there's no evidence to prove that it's the case for the majority. In my experience, I was a somewhat quiet, shy kid and I didn't talk to many girls, and thus had no game. I had looks and other attributes, but my shyness and "perceived" lack of confidence were what caused me to not interact with girls. Therefore, I turned to porn, and it became a very bad habit. Once I started getting older, and realized that something was wrong, I sought to make up for my lack of success with women and started to up my confidence and date with a vengeance. Not to brag, but I ended up dating and sleeping with dozens of women, some better than others but all decent. The porn was always there though, in the background, as a crutch during and in between relationships. I never thought much of it and I never made the attempt to rid myself of it completely because I thought "everyone does it" and that I wasn't at all addicted. It was only now, in my mid 40's that I realized again that something was wrong and that I couldn't shake this habit, no matter how hard I tried. I know my story isn't unique and that others have had a similar life experience. Porn is insidious and is both psychologically and physiologically addicting, just like the worst narcotics. Our brains are tricked into thinking we've won the evolutionary jackpot, so we become compelled to return to this time and time again and seek out a bigger rush. I'm fully convinced that this is a legit addiction like all others, except we don't realize what's going on. We've taken the first few steps by being a part of this site and interacting like we do, but it's only the tip of the iceberg. For far too many, this is the silent addiction of the modern era.
     
  13. Abetterbrain

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    My number would be so much higher but unfortunately I suffered the same in many cases. Still haunts me to this day when I think about all the girls I missed being intimate with.
     

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