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How long does your orgasms last?

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by ChrisKush1999AA17, Nov 14, 2016.

  1. ChrisKush1999AA17

    ChrisKush1999AA17 Fapstronaut

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    I am sorry if this is a too much of a personal question to be asking but there are really difficult to find answers on the internet and nobody responds on any of those websites where you ask questions and stuff. Anyways, I think that there may be something wrong with me, my orgasms last 3 seconds at best, I have heard that the average Male orgasm lasts 3 and 5 seconds, but I am not sure if this was true. It is not because of PMO because I have done NoFap for months until 3 weeks ago, now I have masturbated 5 times and have had sex 3 times, but my orgasms have always been like this. So my question is, how long does yours last? Does 3 - 5 seconds sound normal and average? I am only 17, if that makes any difference.
     
  2. Great question @ChrisKush1999AA17, now we all gonna get TRIGGERED and go relapse to find out for ya. :rolleyes:

    For me it really depends on how long it's been and how long and intense the build up. For example if I PMO all the time on daily then probably as short as 3 sec. But if I go like a month of NoFap and edge a lot then maybe even as long as 20 sec. I notice they are also longer in sex than when MOing.

    Some people just have them naturally shorter. Sometimes we just get dealt a shit hand. Still you better off than many females, or men with some kind of health problem, who can not orgasm at all. Don't make sex all about the finish line. There is so much more to be enjoyed than that. You might miss it when focusing on just orgasm.

    Do some kegels and other pelvic floor exercises, that's known to help. Also make sure you drink plenty of water, at least a gallon a day.
     
  3. Deadlihood

    Deadlihood Fapstronaut

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    My youth pastor (25ish) once said "orgasms are 40 seconds of pleasure." What the fuck? Mine are were 5 or so seconds approximately. If I binged, then they were 3 seconds or so.
     
  4. Headspace

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    Don't expect much when you're masturbating. It's an ejaculation, but it can hardly be called an orgasm. May be just have sex more often, get used to the girl, or was it just a quick affair? When you feel good and relaxed (no PMO!) the orgasm should feel very satisfying. It's not about how long it is, but about whether or not it feels satifying. You obviously sound like there's something missing.
     
  5. Star Lord

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    Most intense for about 15 seconds then dies off for another 10.

    It all depends on how long the build up is and how relaxed you are at the time.
    I find if I'm stressed it's short lived.
    If I'm relaxed it's nearly more out of body.
    Also beating it like there's no tomorrow seriously lowers the feeling while going very slow and spending time building up feels the most satisfying.

    Keep in mind that...
    Orgasm and ejaculation are two different things. Yet they still go hand in hand with masturbating slowly for longer rather than faster for sooner.
    I find that if I take my time and build up I can ejacilate at least 4-6 times before I'm "dry" while the sensation of orgasm still keeps going for those further 15-25 seconds.
     
    Last edited: Nov 15, 2016
  6. Not long enough.
     
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  7. IGY

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    Erm, when my eyeballs roll back into my forehead, I kind of lose track of time to be honest. :p
     
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  8. Deadlihood

    Deadlihood Fapstronaut

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    thts wht sh said
     
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  9. Deadlihood

    Deadlihood Fapstronaut

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    RMS has spoken.
     
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  10. Deadlihood

    Deadlihood Fapstronaut

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    See anything cool inside your brain? When my eyes roll back into my forehead, I see a "FORECLOSURE" sign on my brain. And a bunch of rats and spiders/cobwebs in it. Hmm...
     
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  11. Top shelf.
     
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  12. Deadlihood

    Deadlihood Fapstronaut

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    awww honey
     
  13. Star Lord

    Star Lord Fapstronaut

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    You know I trademarked that today?
    Im going to sue you yo!
    Lol jk

    RMS Has Spoken™
     
    Last edited: Nov 15, 2016
  14. Deadlihood

    Deadlihood Fapstronaut

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    RMS has spoken. ©
     
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