How I cured my sexual disfunctions (ED and PIED and desensitization) and how you can to

Thanks! I'm sure this'll work. I had a thirty day streak once with no p or m and it greatly improved

 

I masturbated today till i had an orgasm while taking a shower, i just couldn't wait any longer.. i just had to test if my dick still works and if i can have orgasm with just thoughts of sex.. and i was able to have orgasm by just thinking about vanilla sex. Although i did felt a bit pain between my balls and butt-hole for a few seconds, which i think is probably because i came a few seconds earlier, but the orgasm was bit different it was all liquid cum very mildly cream color, previously when i was addicted to porn and when i used to masturbate daily it was white thick cum. but no i don't feel anything negative, like why i did it and nor do i feel inclined towards PMO, i just wanted to test if i could have orgasm and thats why i did it today. I was able to hold my self for 90 days, now the next time i cum it will be when i have sex.. now that i know my dick still functions no more masturbation (i.e. no more experiments)!

TBH till today i had so many negative feelings about masturbating, i tough the first time i masturbate after recovery i would cum blood or something or maybe feel lot of pain etc... after being able to cum i feel much relaxed now.

P.S. My Progress Till Date.

 

Thanks you have given me hope and answers for why for years I couldn't orgasm and cum in a woman this my second day

 

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Thanks for this. But man, does paying for sex count? It's not easy to get a girl to have sex. But I figured out after going to a place where I paid and I couldn't get it up. This happened three times. Enough for me to know that I have a problem.

 

Good luck I have been Doung the two things PM without the O for 11 days should I do the full PMO

 

Wow

 

I haven't watched porn in one day. But I still touch my penis and try to imagine girls so that it would get hard. but I am not sure I can last with a woman (paid or not). One day is an accomplishment for me. I'm not sure this will cure me long term. I just need to rewire my brain to get turned on by the normal women, body, etc

 

all i got on the reply was hi silverthorn

 

Hi Silverthorne , Congratulations on your Day One ,

 

So next week I am going to hit the 90 days no P and 30 days no MO.
I read a lot about that magic 30 and 90 days mark. And yesterday I had the first time the urge to watch P again. It is strongly connected to problems in private life with your relationship, to a GF or to yourself. If there are problems there is this escape that you find some satisfaction while watching P. Next week also my GF comes back after a long two months trip and I am with very mixed feelings. Will it work? How will we meet emotionally, there have been fights, but also beautiful chats. This struggling now shows me also that hopefully something is rewiring now. Last week I felt the Nofap superpowers very strong. Met an old friend on the street: he said to me I look great. I was shocked and wasnt able to answer the same to him and he immediately said, I know I dont look great. Then I met an old school friend, we havent met for 20 years. She is together with her friend for 23 years. Isnt that great. I know two such couples, they give me a lot of motivation. In the end she said to me that she completely doesnt worry about me that I will find the right girlfriend. That was so uplifting.
Other effects till nofap:
chest uplifted
Focused mind
More self confidence
Looking others in the eyes while talking
People react positivly and open on the street, small talks (never did that before, or felt very unconfortable)
Quicker awake in the morning
Need less food
Less depressed
Feel my body more
Contected friends I havent seen for a long time
Give my GF contra when she offends me (she isnt used to that)
Here I am not shure, just an intuition: I feel my memory is better, forgetting less
I felt a slight inflamation of the prostata before, that is gone now (here I read that masturbation is good against prostata cancer, but shure it depends on the dosis)

There is for shure other effects, will report more

Question that comes to my mind: when start M again in a good dosis. Maybe without O

Another question: what is exactly the problem with edging while M without P and O