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How I cured my sexual disfunctions (ED and PIED and desensitization) and how you can to

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by HereIsMyNickName, Aug 20, 2016.

  1. HereIsMyNickName

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    Yeah definitely keep me updated! :)
     
  2. HereIsMyNickName

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    You are welcome! :)
     
  3. hiepga1122

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    what if i can't have any partner to have sex to test my ability after a long time stay away PMO
     
  4. wayne09

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    go to a prostitute or maybe try it with a sex toy (fake pussy)
     
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    Sorry couldn't disagree with you more, at 30 days most guys are nowhere near wanting or having sex.
    so many other things to get through first.
    sorry its just my opinion .
     
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  8. HereIsMyNickName

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    You move your ass to find one :p. And after 90 days of no PMO, I think you can allow yourself to masturbate oce in a while. Let s stay once a month. Just to don't go insane.
     
  9. Noodlenotworking

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    after 2 weeks of nofap with one day of around 5mins of just looking at a website and not clicking on the videos I believe I am in phase 1, I get a lot of girls so it is hard for me to be in hardmode as I sleep with a new girl every 2 - 3 days but after 2 weeks of no pmo I can not get it up without without thinkin of a porn ive watched or a past time I had a filth session with a girl, please tell me I am going to get over this
     
  10. Noodlenotworking

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    okay after reading this, I have told 2 girls im sleeping with that I cant have sex for 30 days cause im getting tests for testosterone levels I got 1 more girl left to tell, then hopefully I can stick to it and they can help me. any more advise???
     
  11. wayne09

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    No one can tell you how long it will take. Those numbers are just OP's experience. You just have to wait and try and see. Just quit PMO for good and im sure one day you will be cured.
     
  12. Xander74

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    I wouldn't recommend this. You are replacing one damaging act with another. Noah Church has done a video of this on YouTube please go and watch it!
     
  13. wayne09

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    If he just does it to find out if his dick is working normally again, I dont see the problem.
     
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  14. HereIsMyNickName

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    The problem is prostitution. Just don't do it, period.
     
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  15. HereIsMyNickName

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    Hey man,

    I'm glad you checked all the data here to find what you have to do. Apparently you got it so that's cool.

    Let me say it once again:

    30 days without P, without M, without sex, without anything.

    Then: no P, no M, only sex with real girls.

    I can't promise you that as soon as you will reach day 30 you will be cured. But I can promise you that if you do this, your situation will improve step by step, and you'll recover all the sexual abilities you lost.

    In day 30 and later, even trying to have sex and failing is good for your recovery, because you will be with a girl, cuddling, kissing, trying t have sex.


    Now the warnings:

    The 30 days period without anything is quite important. I think it is the quickest way to recover.

    The analogy is:

    You are in PMO, it is the wrong track.

    The 30 days is letting your brain the time to backtrack.

    And then you ONLY do sex, so that it can go on the right track.


    I don't know how bad are your symptoms, so I can't give you a timeline.

    For me, it worked a tmy first attempt, on day 29. For others, it takes 3 months total.

    Remember this: you already found yourself unable to get it up with girls, what do you have to lose? Follow TO THE LETTER the process I tell you about, enjoy every day; believe in yourself and go for it.
     
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  16. HereIsMyNickName

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    Day 41:

    I had sex with my girlfriend yesterday.

    The erecton was very hard, I am reaching levels of "erection hardness" I haven't reached for a very long time :D

    It took me a long time to orgasm, but I managed to reach it, and it was so intense it was almost painful.


    I am pretty sure it took me a long timeto orgasm because I was nervous.


    But the facts are here: I did it. So, I'll definitely stay n the path, because it works ;)


    In terms of sensations, I am not sure it evolved since day 28. et's give it time
     
  17. wayne09

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    Its just sex. Im not talking about fucking a crack whore from the street or some girl that is forced to work as a prostitute or to do something illegal. If he cant get pussy otherwise and wants to find out, then what the hell. It had to be legal and safe tho, of course.
     
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  18. Xander74

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    I lost my V to a hooker aged 18 and so started a addictive cycle similar to PMO, I didn't need to speak to girls, socialise I could have a great night out and then visit a hooker to get off. This carried on for 3 years and only stopped when I moved away from the availability of prostitutes (Germany). By 23 I had no experience of speaking or interacting with girls in a sexual capacity. My personal experience of course but I regret this part of my life and encourage others to avoid it, prostitutes are not the answer.
     
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  19. Noodlenotworking

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    after 16 days of no pmo last night I had sex with my ex and omg I was rock hard and actually cummed. now im not sure if it was because I didn't use a condom that I cummed but I was in the room mentally the whole time. didn't go into my head once or think about any porn once so that's a start, lets hope I can cum with a condom on aswell.

    I only had 1 day of no sex but it is hard when im the one turning down sex these girls get so suspicious.. what should I say to not have sex?? ive never had this before so I don't know what to say but I wanna feel sex after no sex for 30 days I have a feeling its going to be brilliant!!!!!!

    14 days ago I couldn't even get it up without thinking of porn, nofap really does work!!!
     
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  20. HereIsMyNickName

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    Congrats!! You are either cured or almost cured :D

    I say almost cured because I consider that we are cured when we can cum with a condom. So mybe you are not there yet, but you are very close !!

    I don't understand why you want to turn down sex. Now that you tried it and that it woks, the best thing you can do to recover even more is to have sex !! :)

    So: 1) Still no P and no M
     

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