So I've read about the idea of sublimation, the idea that you can channel your sexual urges into a more productive activity. The thing is, how do you do it? When I get the urge to fap I don't want to work on that personal project I've never been able to finish...I want to fap. Even if I distracted myself by working on that project the urge to fap would only come back later. So how does the sublimation thing work?