How do I get her to talk instead of me talking?

No fucking, no hanging out yet. We met a while ago, but started texting recently. Thing is, I'm bad at texting/flirting over text and stuff like that. Hence, i asketh for thy help.

 

I want to hang out with her, but idk if she'll be alright if i'm direct about these things. Like if i directly asked her out or something. I want her to get to know me (At least a bit), so my chances are improved.

What would you text about with a girl you just met?

 

I like this. She's been offline for a while now. I'll ask her to a movie today. Let's see what she says.

 

Alright guys, this girl clearly is not interested in talking, and I have decided to cut her loose.

She probably has a boyfriend too. Just my luck. Now it'll take me a year to move on at least lol.

Anyways, thank you so much for all the hints/advice you guys gave me. It felt good to have you guys to help me out.

Good Luck to all of you in your endeavours. I'm probably giving up on women now lol.

 

Idk where to start, so I´ll start somewhere.
First of all, you didn´t talk to her. You texted with her. HUGE difference.
You are saying you´re bad at texting. Me too! But instead of trying to do something I´m clearly not good at, I just keep the texting to a minimum, because I like to have real conversations.
What you did was just texting her way too long without asking her out. If she likes you, and you are just way too chicken to ask her out, what do you think will happen? She thinks you´re too afraid. And if she doesn´t like you, you have lost absolutely nothing at all.
Think about it this way: Would you rather spend time with someone who likes you, or someone who is absolutely indifferent? In this frame of mind, a rejection is actually a really good thing, because it spares you from having an awful date.
Second of all: Asking a girl to watch a movie with you, is like asking her to have sex with you. Next time suggest drinking a cup of coffee or going to the park. Somewhere public, where you can´t rape her.
And last but not least: She probably doesn´t have a boyfriend. She was probably just annoyed by you texting her all the time.

So what are you going to do now? Give up on women? Return to PMO? Feeling sorry for yourself?
Or are you going to go out, grab another cute girls phone number and ask her out like a real man? What else would you need her number for anyway? Make it happen! All of you!

 

Idk man, I might try later on. Thanks

 

If you say so man, but i honestly don't know.

 

I thought if i asked her out too soon it would make her uncomfortable or something. That's why I didn't.

Anyways it doesn't matter now. I guess I'll just focus on my career for a while. Thanks

 

If you got a girls phone number, and she gave it to you (meaning you didn´t use any stupid trick to obtain it), chances are pretty good that she fancies you. Why else would she give you her number?
You probably made her uncomfortable by suggesting to watch a movie with you too soon.
Next time suggest something more casual, in a public setting, where both of you are able to walk away when things get awkward. I don´t mean to criticize you, just the next time you get an opportunity, be as bold as you can. Chances are you might just be bold enough

 

I did ask her to hang out once. Here's how that went:

ME(M)- Hey, so will you be free anytime in the next couple of days? I was wondering if we could meet up sometime!
HER(H)- Ummm, I'm not sure, why?
M- No reason, just wanted someone to chill with
H- Oh, Sure! We can definitely meet sometime

(2 days later)

M- Hey so are you free tomorrow?
H- Hey! No, actually I have to go to college for some work! I'll let you know when I'm free, okay?

After that she never said when she was free, and I thought it would be super desperated to ask her again.

 

I barely get to meet any nice girls, man. And when I do, some shit like this happens. It's like i already have less chances, and even among those chances I have no chance.