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Horrible condition, got married but have PE

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by SteveNixon, Dec 21, 2016.

  1. I am watching porn from 2002, I never restricted myself for more than 30 days, once I did when I just joined the college and another time I did it when I was about to meet my girlfriend after long time both for around 30 days.
    Because of this repeated PMO, now I am suffering from PE, got married this year and feeling horrible after having sex each time which just lasts for 2 min.
    I am not sure how this NoFap thing works for married guys but really interested to get rid of PE. Will this NoFap help for PE?
     
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  2. BlackMarble

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    Definetly will help, go to the reboot section, check all the basics on PMO addiction, start a journal and so on. Check the section #rebooting in a relationship. Communication and love are the best tools you will see.

    PE in its majority is due to psychological situations, and it also leads to sexual obssesion very badly (thinking all the time "why the hell I cant last any longer?) and fear of rejection, etc... After 2 months of hard mode, I share with you that many things have changed in my sexuallity but also in my selfsteem and bonding for the better.

    Since we are dealing with PMO addiction and we have been messing around with both our mind and our penile sensibility, it is very convenient to start some challenge in one of the modes (normal (w sex), hard mode (wo sex) etc..) in order to Really reset this compulsion and get to know your beautiful and complex human sexuallity (and move from a mechanical genital centered one and all its consequences!). Start reading about this addiction, share and post as much as you can, identify your triggers, work on the emotional underlying issues, etc...

    Then depending on the mode you chose there are more tips and exercises that can help for PE, but I will encourage first to deal boldly with PMO addiction as a whole.

    Im sure if that the love in your marriage will be a source of determination.
     
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  3. As suggested by you, at first I am trying to go away from PMO, its been three days without doing/seeing anything and till now I am not having craving also.
     
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  4. Tommy_0113

    Tommy_0113 Fapstronaut

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    Hmmm, to help with PE, have you tried using extra-safe (thick) condoms? That would take some of the sensitivity away. I could always last longer and do it harder with a condom on than without.
     
  5. Neri89

    Neri89 New Fapstronaut

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    Do you feel insecure? Do you think she could cheat on you?
     
  6. VJnjit

    VJnjit New Fapstronaut

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    I am exactly in same category.. Additionally i have been diagnosed with Varicocele. I have started NoFap resolution from yesterday Jan 1, 2017. All the best to you.
     
  7. No I dont feel insecure and there is no trust issue.

     

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