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Hooker addiction

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Olecram, May 11, 2017.

  1. Olecram

    Olecram Fapstronaut

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    Didnt know where to post this issue so I did it here.
    This fucking vice is sucking my money and my social energy. Im also addicted to watching hooker websites. I think I replaced that for porn. I still abstain from PMO, but I relapse at least 4 times a month or less. Anyways, the root problem here is dealing with loneliness, just finished a relationship, so I find my shield in hookers and my way to ejaculate without PMO.

    Give me strenght buddies. Much love
     
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  2. Runtilmylegsdropoff

    Runtilmylegsdropoff Fapstronaut

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    So you pick up hookers? That's gotta get expensive.
     
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  3. Olecram

    Olecram Fapstronaut

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    Yeah man it rapes my pockets. And sometimes even when I don't want to I feel the urge to talk to them and negotiate prices. And some other times I feel like forgettin'em and send them to hell. Its like I'm unpredictable. Gotta try to keep my decision to leave them for good.
     
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  4. YngwieWanksteen

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    Might want to check out some SA or SAA meetings.

    I went to a few, guys were talking about spending thousands of dollars on prostitutes.
     
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  5. MadHatter

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    That's rough, man.
    Best of luck to you!

    We're all in this together.
     
  6. John84

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    I am doing that to.
     
    Last edited: May 24, 2017
  7. Olecram

    Olecram Fapstronaut

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    Thanks guys. I'll google up those meetings
     
  8. Blackenglish2017

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    That's why I stopped. It was porn that forced me to use escorts. Which eventually led me into debt. Sex is a natural process but society and the media driven by greed has made sex into a problem and evil vice.
     
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  9. Olecram

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    True man... it aint cool to use prostitutes. They don't give a fuck about you. Only about your money. Gotta detach from them. And sometimes when its hard for us to be abstaining, its preferable to wank than going out with a whore.... unless you do some kind of treatment. But fapping aint essentially bad. Its bad when it becomes a vice or it affects your life. Lately ive been using fap to feel emotionally better. Im in a hard moment... when i get emotionally stable ill try to abstain again.
     
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  10. Blackenglish2017

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    Do you have a hobby? I have a motorbike and if I feel the urge to fap I jump on my bike and ride. If I find the urge to fap at night. Do a shock treatment. Go on the internet and watch a horror movie for 10mins. That will stop you.
     
  11. Themadfapper

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    Weird stuff from my perspective. Fapping makes me feel horrible. It takes days to get over the awful feeling, and over a week to really start feeling alive again. It's beyond extreme depression like intense misery and feeling awful.
     
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  12. Olecram

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    In my case its different. Sometimes its like self love also. But it has to be real, like not induced by porn or by force.
     
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  13. Olecram

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    Gotta learn to manage sexual energy. It can be used in many ways rather than being tossed by fap. Another way of self love. Fap is just a habit
     
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  14. lukasz.luk

    lukasz.luk Fapstronaut

    I am asking the same Question to myself. Is viewing websites with girls sex dates (both with paid whores and with girls whose meet up for pleasure) breaking abstinence from PM?

    I am only watching right now, cause when I started rebooting I promise to myself to fuck only two girls which I really appreciate (friendly sex).

    Anybody has any experience with this?

    Keeping me away from porn seems not to be as hard as stop searching real girls just for searching... that's my main problem for now I hope.
     
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  15. I think most guys here deal with pmo and a smaller percentage deal with actual sex addictions.

    I personally feel they are related but distinct.

    One thing to pull your dick out in a Broom closet, another thing to plan to visit an escort.

    I deal with them separately personally . I know some people can handle stopping both at once. I preferred to build on successes so I didn’t do a cold turkey stop.
     
  16. TheGambler

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    Now we're talking! I used to frequent working women in the SE Asia region. At least part of the time you're getting laid you feel some confidence, unlike the porn.

    The disease concept has screwed people up I think. Ricky Gervais had a funny bit in one of his shows about addiction becomes an excuse for everything, and he pointed out sex addiction was the biggest scapegoat of all. Over and over I'm finding all my problems come from me, and all my solutions must come from me/I as well.
     

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