HOCD is getting WORSE!

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Sasha, Apr 15, 2019.

  1. Sasha

    Sasha Fapstronaut

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    Okay so my HOCD is definitely getting worse. I'm 29 years old and I'm straight, no question about that. But femdom porn is getting less and less extreme and I've been noticing the dude's penis more and more. Like what the fuck!? Up until now I've never given a shit about a dude's junk but I'm noticing it more and more and I feel like HOCD is maybe making me gay. Is anyone else going through this!? WTF I can't watch porn now because I'm afraid it's going to keep making me more and more until I'm gay. (There isn't anything wrong with being gay, except I'm not nor do I want to be)
    What do I do? quitting porn is so hard, I've never had a girlfriend and I get lonely and depressed. I'm always horny.
     
  2. RightLane

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    I mean first off, quit porn. I think that is one very easy step you can take to help with your HOCD.

    Porn screws with your head in wierd ways and you are not the first to have gay thoughts because of porn. If you continue watching porn, you need to realize that later down this road this has you getting screwed by a couple of men regularly. It always does. What starts of small is often more deadly than the obvious threats. Porn, if tolerated, will often get you to do things that you swore you wouldn't, or didn't even believe you could.

    Second, don't worry about your girlfriend issue. I don't have one either, and contrary to popular opinion, you don't need one to be happy. Make friends. Make friends that are girls. You are appreciated through your friends just as much as you would be if you had a girlfriend.

    Third, you are by far not the only one going through this. Your not even the only one here on NF. This is actually fairly common and is something of a side affect to PMO addiction. Your body craves more and more and pretty soon "regular" porn doesn't cut it and you crave men or other things. Name one person who is content watching the same porn video over and over and jerking off to it. We watch porn because it turns us on, yes, but also because there is this new and exciting aspect to it.

    However, just because it is somewhat common does not mean it breaks my heart to see. I really truly hope you get better. Fight on brother.
     
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  3. Jon_Stark

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    Listen to the StormTrooper. The force is with him.
     
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  4. RightLane

    RightLane Fapstronaut

    LOL! Thanks brother!
     
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  5. Sasha

    Sasha Fapstronaut

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    You're right porn is hell and I need to quit, your comment on it leading to sex with men grossed me out and I can't let that happen. I need to quit cold turkey
     
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  6. RightLane

    RightLane Fapstronaut

    Amen to that! Now let’s see it happen!! Fight hard brother! I got your back!!
     
  7. Habbapop

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    You need to do NO PMO !
     
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  8. SirErnest

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    Yup too much porn. Take a break man. Read, and learn.
     
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  9. Jorics

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    guys how much time is necessary to healt? i am doing nofap since two years ago, two streaks of 100+ days of no pmo, currently 75 days free but those gay thoughts and gay fantasies do not leave :(, i am sure i am straight but idk why i have thoose thoughs
     
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  10. ivanhoe

    ivanhoe Fapstronaut

    do you edge?
    The other thing is gay fantasies can by SYMBOLIC of an unmet need, and your brain substitutes sex...
     
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  11. Habbapop

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    Have you one no PMO or just no P ?
     
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  12. Jorics

    Jorics Fapstronaut

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    both streaks were PMO free, just occasionally edging not to much, actually relapse on P five days ago because these thoughts
     
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  13. Habbapop

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    Ok, i think you will need a 90 days no PMO to start the reboot. And that is no edging and no sexuall imiges and so on. I still have hocs thoughts.
     
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