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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by lunayo, Jan 29, 2019.

  1. lunayo

    lunayo New Fapstronaut

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    Heyy, I'm Luna and I'm 19 years old. I'm a girl.

    I honestly don't remember a time in my life that I didn't think about sex. Even when I was younger the thoughts about it were already there.
    I started to watch porn using my cousin's phone. At first I just used it to play games and stuff but one day I found a video and when I clicked, it was porn. After that I completely forget about the games.
    Since then I have been watching porn and reading a lot of erotic tales almost every day.
    At first I didn't thought it was a big deal, but now I know how this fxxxx up my mind.

    I can stay a lot of days without watching porn (just reading), but the problem is, I can't look to someone without thinking about that person in a sexual act.
    I do it with everyone that my eyes lay on, and I can not control it. I have tried many times before and I just can't.
    With friends, strangers, teachers, even with my family and this is really disgusting. Literally with everyone. I can't hold back. I don't know what to do, this is really stressing me out. I must be a sick bastard.

    In the end of the last year I've found about NoFap and now I decide to give it a try because I'm really tired of this.
     
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  2. Alpha Romeo

    Alpha Romeo Fapstronaut

    hey I had similar issue when I first started It would discust me to no end but part of that discust was making it a bigger turn on which was worst etc but I got out of it.

    Nofap is hard I will admit but it is doable and definetly worth it. If you don't mind I have a couple tips I wan't to share with you
    - the most important part is to commit to it no more last time its either today or one day and to delete everything that is remotly sexual that you have.
    after that it depends on the person but some people
    write daily or weekly logs
    find an acountability partner
    keep your phone away from where you sleep
    try not to stay alone
    and try to not go to bed to late as it is harder to control ourself then.
    inform yourself read on the subject to get a good grasp of what you are facing.

    oh and if I was you I would definetly stop the erotic stories and not just the videos/pictures.

    Welcome in the communitee

    If you mind me asking. How do you plan on going about this.

    Ps sorry if it isn't clear english is my secound language.
     

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