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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by diogodiogo, Jun 26, 2017.

  1. diogodiogo

    diogodiogo Fapstronaut

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    Hi, I just registered here.

    My name is Diogo, I'm 24 years old, I was born and I live in Portugal, about me .. well I'm a curious boy, nature lover, i like music, philosophy, I like beach, summer .. I would like to travel to america and asia, because I love everything I see and hear in the media about countries like Thailand and Brazil, i mean the people, the beaches, the climate, everything I see about these countries I love ..
    I registered in this community because at the moment I have a problem that is destroying my life, this problem is called femdom addiction, I will read the stories of other people who share this addition, I hope I can share my story and follow a program that helps me to improve my life because I want a happy future where i can where I can have a relationship with women said normal and not feel me a submissive with them and that is how i feel now

    Thank you for listening
    greetings
    Diogo Martins
     
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  2. adept

    adept Fapstronaut

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    Hi Diogo,
    Great introduction and welcome!
    Honestly I don't really know much about femdom addiction, but I'm sure there's people in this forum that do.
    Anyways, just like any other sexual-related addiction, I'm sure you might find some of the methods people use to get rid of their addiction useful!
    Try reading people's successful stories and apply it in your life.
     
  3. D . J .

    D . J . Fapstronaut

    Welcome to NoFap where you are amongst friends who are here to encourage you and sometimes challenge you but not judge you.

    The enemy is here to steal, kill and destroy. What are your current strategies for combating the enemy called PMO?
     
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  4. diogodiogo

    diogodiogo Fapstronaut

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    Femdom addiction ..
    Well I can try to explain what this is, is way of living where men are dominated by woman ,he is her slave, she commands and he obeys in everything in life, there is a movement there called Gynarchy that basically is the opposite of the patriarchy, basically this movement wants to make the woman the center of the universe and avenge the patriarchy where the man was the center of society and family, the Ginarchy is associated with matriarchy, Feminine Supremacy and Feminism and is opposite to MGTOW as it is obvious.

    Even knowing how this works and I feel weak and addicted to this lifestyle, maybe because I was raised by my grandmother and she was a bit rude and forced me to eat a lot when I did not like the food, later I remember being on the edge of it and enjoying being at their feet, massaging and smelling, I think that was the point of the game for this whole story.
    Because my parents could not take care of me because they were working, like all of the children I went to a day care center but on the 1st day I cried and wanted my mother, so my parents decided that I would be given to my grandmother, i only saw my parents at the end of the day when they came home from work, during the day i was with my grandmother.
    Later my parents divorced and lived with my mother for the first time and visited my father very rarely i was influenced by the feminine nature I developed this my submissive side for women and not being able to establish myself as a "real men"

    Back to the story in my case all this addiction began simply with watching videos of lesbian foot fetish, then I came to watch videos of women to dominate men, then passed to cuckold males slaves of wives and last I got to leave the screen and try all this in real life, I went to visit escorts, professional dommes, I currently visit these when I have money, lately I'm trying to try the so-called Findom that is a fetish for financial domination, this is the woman give you orders to give your money to her and do what she says, buy whatever she wants without complaining if it's expensive or not, she wants to explore without the least compassion for you, it's how you become her personal atm , her object, I still have not tried this findom but I'm tempted and I'm worried about my life because this addition that was just seeing online and masturbating in front of the screen took me to experience in real life, paying the professional dommes to make me their slave , as in the online vídeos,
    I am worried and suffering because I see my life being summed up to see the woman on the street anywhere as a being of which I am inferior and I only have to be her slave, I walk in the street and when I see a well-arranged mature woman and attractive, what I look at first is not the breasts nor the ass, as a men would probably look, in my case it's the feet because I want to be at her feet .. I do not know if I have to accept that this is my nature or if it's something that I can change and overcome by not masturbate for a certain time and stop to see femdom online vídeos
    I have other interests in life, I love to play music, do sport .. but this fetish deviates me from these interests ..

    For the last this addiction made me go o the point of selling some of my personal possessions and material goods to have money to go to these dommes, it makes me feel like a junkie who does everything he can to get his drug, which is what I do
     
    Last edited: Jun 27, 2017
  5. diogodiogo

    diogodiogo Fapstronaut

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    Cold showers seems to help and i have done it in the last 30 days, i have done sports, seems to help .. what does not help is being tired and depressed for some reason and the laptop is really close overthere and bam !! relapse,
    i did a 60 day nofap in the past, 2 years ago but i relapsed and since then i never tried again
     
  6. FindingAName

    FindingAName Banned User

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    Your not alone. Everyone on this site has their quirks and such. There's always someone you can relate to
     
  7. diogodiogo

    diogodiogo Fapstronaut

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    i know
     
  8. Freitas.P

    Freitas.P Fapstronaut

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    Saudações do Brasil! Seja bem-vindo ao grupo Diogo.
     
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    diogodiogo Fapstronaut

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  10. D . J .

    D . J . Fapstronaut

    Check out In Case You Didn't Know for strategies and tips which may help you along your journey.
     

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