Hero Training (Closed)

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by DekuHope, Apr 4, 2019.

  1. DekuHope

    DekuHope Fapstronaut

    @CoolBuddy7 This is my invitation for our Training.... We will train together until one of us give in. I am your Opponent this time. I wont go easy on you....
    Rules: No PMO....
    We will analyse our Strategys our mistakes, when and why it happend....
    Comfort zones
    Phone usage
    Private room
    Overdoing
    Lack of Exercise
    Strategy to avoid and handle urges
    Everything

    (Deku) Mental Points: 1
    (Coolbuddy7) Mental Points: 3

    Get ready because our training will involve challenges with others as well.
     
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  2. MASTER MONK

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    What is your goal?
     
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  3. CoolBuddy7

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    I cannot thank you enough brother. You give me all the motivation I need, you show me the right path to be followed. You try to make me better, you strive hard to be my mentor. I am so blessed to have a mentor like you to follow upon. I will work hard, I will prove that I am worthy of the efforts you put in to help me out. Thank you brother, means so much to me.

    I am in, lets do this ! Lets get rid of this monster.

    To help each other in the path of recovery and going to the very top of quitting this addiction together.
     
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  4. MASTER MONK

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  5. CoolBuddy7

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    What to remember exactly ?
    I don't understand, can you tell me what you meant by that ?
    Hey, and I just realised that your profile picture is Aang too, in his Avatar state...
     
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  6. MASTER MONK

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    R
    Remember your goals.
     
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  7. CoolBuddy7

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    Alright dude.
     
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  8. CoolBuddy7

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    I am all good, stayed away from all urges, didn't really experience any much triggers today, and I was focused today. Internet addiction is an area where I have not really made progress at all, actually, there's been some progress, with me jumping over to do some things that help me with in my life over the internet instead of wasting all of the time in the world by binge watching or watching porn. I have stopped gaming on my phone, started listening to music again. Really motivated to kick start working out again too. I will surely do that . Journal writing is at a set back now, with me having not written about what happened in the last 3 days, must do that now. I am so motivated on quitting this addiction, and I must say, every time I realise that you have hopes on me, I just quit thinking about all of these irrelevant things. Thank you hero. Hope your journey is going on well too. PLUS ULTRA...
     
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  9. CoolBuddy7

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    How are you doing brother ?
     
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  10. DekuHope

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    Its very sinilar. Porn nah but phone addiction still a more active problem. Youtube is quiet a problem
     
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  11. DekuHope

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    Music supports your willpower by 30-40% at least it does for me. ^^
     
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  12. DekuHope

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    Wipe those tears away. Acknowledge your addiction. Time for Responsbility. Training DAY 1
    When do I fail ? When I go to sleep or get up in the morning... Most of the cases I am l lie on the bed. Also it becomes a comfort zone. So when I concentrate on that one I will greatly reduce the chance to fail. Also I slip when I am too long on my phone which is like the only chance to fap... I have a strict rule no porn on computer and laptop....I dont need anothe rule for my phone but a plan what to do when I am about to slip.
     
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  13. DekuHope

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    I got an idea.... for the first 10 days... before I use my phone I must get out of the bed and write a post here on nofap. As well I am not allowed to use my phone when I am on the bed.... No matter how comfartable it is. My comfortzone lets me slip into PMO. No porn on smartphone as well... but lets say I get urges what can I do then? Lets say I am allowed to masturbate but I need to go for a walk first :) With music. Also no games on the phone. Everytime I make resist a temptation I will add a Mental Point to a list.
     
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  14. CoolBuddy7

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    Well, Day 1 for me was like :
    I hadn't written the journal for the past three days as I have been postponing to do that later. So, today, in the morning I wrote the journal for one of those three days. I am continually using the internet and my laptop all day long. Although I am not watching porn or am not binge watching ( I have customised my browser, youtube home page, disabled anything and everything that has even a minimal chance of triggering me ) but, I am not all focused right now, given that my school is over, like I have to go to college within a few months, but, I am planning on dropping out for a year, staying at home, working hard; unlike how I enjoyed and played every minute I had to complete my schooling on high grades ( Well, the expectations on me were, actually high; still fair enough. Every teacher who knew me, wanted me to perform very well, but, I played and played and got distracted, and in the end, I know I haven't done my examinations well.. ). So, I guess I have to learn to make use of the time I have. I have started listening again to music already. I am downloading e-books to be read whenever I feel bored. I was learning the basics of Python in the morning, well, only for a small amount of time. Have to complete it as soon as possible while also learning it thoroughly. I am going to start working out today, and I have told myself that whenever I get any urge as to Masturbate, I am going to do 10 push-ups, or maybe 10 lunges ( because, I am too very comfortable with Push-ups ) or maybe even pull-ups ( as, I can't even do 1 pull-up properly ). I have decided to also update my journal and complete writing everything till date, within today. There's another thing I have in mind, well I will do it too. I am not going to use any electronic device, strictly after 09:00 pm ( Well, I have to turn them off as early as 08:45 ), and I have to read any book (not an e-book) atleast for half-an-hour before going to sleep. I can come online and only spend time on Nofap, or learning a new programming language. The rest of the time I am going to have to learn for performing well; in the examinations, I am going to repeat for the next year. That's what I am planning on doing. Also, I would start meditating again from tomorrow. So that's another thing. Had some urges today, but dealt with them carefully.
     
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  15. DekuHope

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    That's the spirit don't worry I repeated twice. But after the second time (6th grade) Someone saved me from dropping from school the teacher who begged my own parents to give me another chance.... The one I expecpted it least from... He was my Hero back then so I changed... I graduated as one of the best in my class from a D Class student so Straight A's. I grow a lot in those years. Now I am the guy who almost dropped of from my high school but is at University now. Trust me you can do it! Grab Destiny but the neck and show its who decides about your life. I got your back, brother!
     
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  16. CoolBuddy7

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    And, now you're a hero yourself ;), at least for me..:)
     
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  17. DekuHope

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    Morning :D before I got to my phone I am posting herwe ^^
     
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  18. CoolBuddy7

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    Day 2:

    Well, I must admit that I had a lot of strong urges today; but I guess all the pain and grief I felt the last time I made you sorry by relapsing, that helped me in making a clear decision, brother. Another day fully wasted. I don't think I am going anywhere with this. I am just doing the same thing again and again, Waking up, watching the highlights of previous day's football matches, browsing the internet, like some football related articles and all, then Going on browsing in the NoFap forum for a while, before Pretty much setting into the downward internet spiral. I don't understand why all of this is happening. I make commitments to myself, but, I keep procrastinating (without even realising that I am procrastinating), and then later rant about all that I have done. I say to myself that I am going to keep my journal up to date, or start working out from today and all, but later, in the end; I only end up surfing the internet for hours together. I am stuck in this, but I will surely come out of all this. I better start working out right away, and as soon as I am done with that, I am going to complete writing my journal. Still, there is a good thing in that. I am not giving up, and persistently trying. So, I guess I better get started.

    What about you brother ? How was your day 2 ? Did you face any challenges ? How did you take care of things then ? Eagerly waiting to hear you, my hero, my mentor, my brother...:p:D
     
  19. Infrasapiens

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    I know it says Closed but I want to say this to @DekuHope. When you first got here and you self-proclaimed yourself as "My hero" I saw you as an arrogant person. Now that I see you are offering yourself to really help others my opinion of you has changed, you may not be "My" hero but you sure have become the hero of others.

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  20. DekuHope

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    Well my brothers I deleted my an App that hold me back from growing. Also I made a difficult workout for my back and shoulders. Found some good music :) made some new friends but only on Nofap ^^. I met up to my own expectations and made a difficult decision to make the step I was scared most of. Letting go of porn letting go felt so good. Like saying farewell to an old friend.... even though this friend made me suffer and was the root of my suffering... It felt good to speak to him and telling him that I am ready to give and not only do things to make this change become real. It feels so good to do the right thing. I was suffering such strong urges I didnt even need to masturbate it already like I did it 100 times in row.... but then... I said "of course" of course I there is hope. Of course I will change. Of course this is possible. Of course I love my girlfriend. Of course I will give it all and take on the challenge. I did it with a smile not even suffering a bit. Its strange but this doesnt feel like a fight anymore. More like me growing up... from someone normal to someone special I always knew he was inside me or I will become him. Like a possible future-self that is the best version I can become. Yeah... maybe I exaggerate ha ha ha ha but you know what this is life....and it feels beautiful with all its ups and downs and sometimes the falls when we hit rock bottom just to realize that this is the ground we should build our life on. And now I am going to tell my Girlfriend how much I love her and Am grateful that I met her... Did any miracle happend to me ? No I made the miracle happen.
     
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