Hentai? Is that okay for your partner to watch Hentai ? If he never ever watches "normal P" again?

I dont think so...isnt it just animated porn basically?

 

The question is why is he watching it? Is it for its insights into Japanese culture? Is it for the complex, engaging story lines? Is it because he is a student of graphic design or animation wanting to pick up tips?

Or is it, perhaps, because it turns him on? If it turns him on then it is going to cause the same dopamine hit and damage that 'regular' Porn does. Put it in the same bucket as other forms of Porn and P-subs (explicit music videos etc.) He needs to stop using screen images, moving or still, drawn or real to get his kicks and focus exclusively on his real, flesh and blood SO.

ANH

 

Hentai is anime porn. So he shouldn’t be watching it.

Help him reboot, so he would lose interest in all fictional images and he’d be more interested in you

 

No. My bf was into that, and he stopped because he knew it wasn't healthy and was basically a p-sub.

 

Hentai is porn no matter what. It shows what a lot of porn videos already do, but in an animation

 

No. He tak may just act as p-sub. Will create same addictive behavior. Sorry, but part of dealing with porn addiction is you have to give up a lot. You have to be uncomfortable and you have to get rid of hings you may really like to kick it.

 

Totally. I tried to allow myself all sorts of p-subs. Doesn’t matter if it’s Playboy, Victoria’s Secret catalogs, or Cosmo. If I’m looking or reading to be turned on, it has the same affect on the brain that you’re trying to avoid.

 

He should abstain from sex until his genitals heal and his brain heals from the addiction. This way, he can get stronger erections and sex would be more pleasurable.

So he should abstain from sex until then, so you can enjoy sex with him again