Help!

From the feedback that I have gotten from women in these forums, I think it is absolutely normal to feel hurt by your boyfriend's DE.
I had DE for years, and I'm sure that it was mostly from too much PMO.

It's really great that you are supporting your bf with this. Be patient. It might take a long time. But in the mean time, I suggest that you talk to him about it.

I don't know how much you have talked already (or how long he has been doing NoFap), but I can share my experience:

When I had DE, I thought that was a good thing. I thought it was great that I could last a long time. I thought that it somehow made up for other perceived shortcomings. I think without PMO, I would have had PE instead. And so PMO causing DE seemed like a major bonus. The sad reality is I think it really hurt some of my partners that I couldn't "get off" with them, but I did a fantastic job of getting myself off.

Since I have been on NoFap, I seem to have more of a PE problem (though I haven't had sex, so not really sure). But I have learned so much, and one of the big lessons that I learned is PE is so much better than DE. I think it is very important for men and women to be able to give their partners an orgasm.

I am confident that if he can stay off the PMO, and if you talk, and you keep working together, that his DE problem will go away.

 

Yeah it's probably normal I heard a lot of women take it personally. Please don't though it's really not you or him even. If he said its because of porn i would believe him. I had that problem when I was younger I even sometimes stayed away from opportunities where I could get girls because I didn't want to embarrass myself in bed. I don't have that problem anymore it went away after staying away from porn for 90 days.