HELP ME

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  1. wowthatmitebcool

    wowthatmitebcool Fapstronaut

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    I am an 14 year old teen with (not excessive) masturbation problems. I only masturbate 1 times in a week. It doesn't seem bad but its really making me feel guilty and bad.
    There should be a way. I don't want to get social with people, I like myself to myself.
    I have a school which includes a swimming pool and basketball court. I know they are going to fix my problem but in the summer I dont have anywhere to go. And when my family goes to work, I am home alone playing games, but when I am taking shower.
    Well, masturbating.
    Please tell me how to get rid of this virus.
     
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  2. Tiger uppercut!

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    Hello and welcome! :)

    We are glad to have you as a part of our community. Here are some quick links to get you started.

    Getting Started Guide | How to Use the NoFap Forums | Panic Button |Day Counter | Rebooting Resources|Forum Rules | Glossary

    If you wish to keep a journal of your progress you can do so in the appropriate section found here

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    There are plenty of wonderful, friendly and knowledgeable people here to help you along on your journey to a life free of PMO. I wish you nothing but the best!
     
  3. Coffee Candy

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    Heyyy welcome to the NoFap forum : ) It's nice to see you here fighting the good fight alongside us!

    Here is just some advice:

    First and foremost please take a look at each section in the forum, there might be something(s) you may find of big help to you. Feel free to post there :+)

    Then secondly I just strongly advise you to be active on your profile(as there quite a few active people in the profile section). Please start by choosing an avatar and then make daily status posts to show you're active and needing support/encouragement. They've also got a neat little feature that shows freshly posted statuses for all users to see. People will find your profile and give you encouragement/support.

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    Thirdly, You should also highly consider creating a public journal and write about your days in more depth for us members to follow along your journey and offer support to you by way of posting in your journal.

    Last but not least: Good luck on your journey here, make sure to really give it a try with all your heart!
     
  4. wowthatmitebcool

    wowthatmitebcool Fapstronaut

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    Ok I am going to ignore those spam comments that are actually stupid but I actually know how to way to stop masturbating and I wanted to share with you.
    Just wear wet clothes. Thats it. This will give you an feeling to not take of your pants again cuz your pants are sticking into your body. For porn, get an Web blocking extension and then repeat "I am an stupid if I remove this extension." 10 times.
     
  5. CookyMonster

    CookyMonster Fapstronaut

    Hm ... not sure. Your subconscious might overhear the if and hear what you might actually mean: I am a stupid. Remove this extension.

    Better find a phrase that doesn‘t address what you try to avoid but what you want to approach, where you want to go.
     
  6. wowthatmitebcool

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    Alright then "I will not remove this extension" 10 times. That's more appropriate.
     
  7. CookyMonster

    CookyMonster Fapstronaut

    You cannot not remove. Try something like:

    This extension remains installed for it gives me back my healthy life. I love my life more than anything.

    Say this for 3 minutes after waking up, feel it, 2 minutes before lunch, 2 minutes after dinner, 3 minutes before sleeping. Believe it, mean it, feel it.
     
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  8. wowthatmitebcool

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    I just masturbated today. I am an failure. I lost it. I have to start again 40 days.
    Ejaculated but dont feeling orgasm
     
  9. CookyMonster

    CookyMonster Fapstronaut

    Be mad at yourself for a while then move on. No self-bashing. That is not helpful.
    Start fresh.
    You want to do 40 days no PMO?
     
  10. wowthatmitebcool

    wowthatmitebcool Fapstronaut

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    Absolutely! But as I said I just ejaculate but not HAD ORGASM
    Well actually 20 days because my school starts and I have NOT CHANCE OF FAPPING CUZ IM NOT GOING TO HAVE TIME STUDYING AND READING AND SPORTS. Also I come to home with my parents, I cant fap when my parents in my house so... 20 days.
     
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    Just havin a question, Did ya leave PMO?
    And should I start today or tomorrow to 20days NoPMO?
     
  14. CookyMonster

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    wowthatmitebcool Fapstronaut

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    Affirm. Started. Thanks for motivation!
     
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