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Help me understand my situation

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by bold_me, Mar 31, 2018.

  1. Mar 31, 2018 #1
    bold_me

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    Hi,
    I am 26. I have been PMOing since I was 15 years old. I was doing it daily and if required more than once as per my desires. I never had any real person contact until recently when had a girlfriend. It was mainly long distance relation. Video chats mainly but nothing sexy, just regular stuff. Once we decided to meet up and during that time, she was in the mood for it. I also wanted it but there was no sexual drive or any arousal. I was still trying with all the foreplay. Later when the time came have sex, my penis was not alive, it was like dead. I tried to shake it to make it hard. But when I held it in my hand, I cummed. Then, I was able to get a medium erection only which was not enough and we had to stop.

    I never knew about PIED and new to this phenomenon. I think I have it. I need someone to help me to confirm.

    I also need to know how long it will take to reboot. I am on day 4 now and today I had morning wood after a long time. Please help me understand.
     
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  2. Mar 31, 2018 #2
    Immature

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    Yes it sounds like you have PIED.

    Nobody can say how long a reboot will take.

    You can find more information at http://yourbrainonporn.com
     
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  3. Apr 5, 2018 #3
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    Yep that’s pied. Pretty severe too. This too shall pass.

    You’ve come to the right place.
     
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  4. Apr 5, 2018 #4
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    ^This is correct, but you can expect the process to last several months. You have been watching porn at least once daily for over a decade. That kind of damage will take more than just a couple of months to sort out. The main thing is to avoid a cycle of relapse and reset. You need to consistently stop masturbating to porn @bold_me. Don't touch your dick unless you are peeing with it or washing it.
     
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  5. Apr 5, 2018 #5
    Male38

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    and if i have sex would that be ok
     
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  6. Apr 5, 2018 #6
    Immature

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    With another person, no porn? Yes. Though some think it may slow a reboot. My guess is that if you can do it, you should, but what do I know?
     
    Immature, Apr 5, 2018
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  7. Apr 6, 2018 #7
    Male38

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    porn is history
     
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  8. Apr 6, 2018 #8
    MichaelDracula

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    Sex will definitely slow your reboot. You have premature ejaculation issue, this will stop if you abstain from porn long enough, it helped me. My erections, on the other hand are not back yet. You have to abstain from any kind of sexual stimulation for a while, until you get morning wood back and random boners.
     
    MichaelDracula, Apr 6, 2018
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  9. Apr 6, 2018 #9
    bold_me

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    Thanks guyz for the replies. I am going strong now... I am aiming for no PM for life... Sex will not happen for me until atleast 3 months as my girl friend will be out of the country so guess it will help with my reboot.

    I had a morning wood 2 days back and biner when I had a video call with her recently (was having a random conversation... nothing sexy). Since then it is dead down there... Still will wait patiently.
     
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