Help i have Rape Phantasys

Know that fantasies are nothing like reality. Make yourself better by doing no PMO for a long time, and eventually you will stop wanting this. I think in time if you practice talking to people you will get better with women, but first you have to rid yourself of these fantasies.

 

That is a porn induced fantasy. Just stay away from porn and that will go away.

 

It sounds like a fantasy through porn in a sense you wouldn't have come across this sort of stuff before porn and porn does increase the chance of your tastes to change quite heavily which can result in you having an identity crises which I myself and otheRs are going thRough

 

When you ask yourself "is this what I really want?", it's likely that at this point you don't know for sure and that's what actually matters! Whenever you aren't certain that you want something or you get a bad feeling associated with a fantasy/fetish it means it's not real or enjoyable. Fantasies are not reality, hence their designation. Stop thinking about it, deviate your attention to something else and don't feed your sexual thoughts for a while, eventually they will disappear and you will feel normal again.

 

Give it some time without paying attention to it, you'll be fine. Good luck!

 

Op are your sure your not bi atleast ?

 

Sexual orientation has nothing to do with fantasies, specially ones that make you feel ashamed, there are many articles in YourBrainOnPorn that explain what happens to you after overusage of P and M. OP, you have to fight the urges off until they disappear and they will but you have to believe in yourself, you know it doesn't make you feel good, it's just your brain looking for more and more extreme things in order to get the much needed high.

 

Hey, guy!
Opinions vary, that kind of chat is considered a P-Substitute and if you'd done M or O I'd said a reset was in order. As it stands, in my book, you can keep the counter, for now.
Sooner or later, though, P-subs must either fade out and go or they'll lead to a relapse (or to S, about which opinions also vary)! Best of success!

 

He is not talking about a book (just ignore that).

P = Porn
M = Masturbation
O = Orgasm
S = Sex
P/sub = Porn substitute

A porn substitute is something very arousing to you, but not totally porn. Porn and P/subs will fade in time. The time it takes is different for each person. It may take 1 year. So, you need to stop sex chats. No porn stories, pictures or videos.

You can recover! But it will take a lot of effort. Keep coming to NoFap for advice and encouragement. We will help you Ozo.

 

You need to get some confidence, talk to a girl. Try your best to thing about other things and keep yourself busy and preoccupied until your deep into your nofap. Fight the urges until they vanish.

 

You Must not do sex chat. This recovery requires self-control. It is not easy, but you must not do sex chat.