Help, I feel like a savage! Trying not to have sex during reboot

hey have you seen any benfits yet? I also have premature ejaculation and hoping nofap would help

 

That's a pretty personal question. I guess it depends on why you want to spend time with them in the first place. Are you pursuing women because you want to develop a meaningful, trusting, personal relationship with them? I think that's perfectly healthy and normal, and it usually leads to healthy sex as well.

I think the thing to be wary of is your urges to watch porn and masturbate. If the only reason you have sex with a woman is to relieve that urge to watch porn or masturbate and to avoid breaking your NoFap commitment, then you're really just using her body for your own selfish reasons. Women don't like that, and just as importantly, it's going to leave you feeling just as empty as you do when you watch porn.

It depends on your intent. Flirting is healthy. Talking about sexual stuff with women is healthy. Doing so to replace porn is not.

I think you just have to answer some questions honestly for yourself: what do you like about the women you've been flirting with? Would you still talk to them even if they weren't attractive to you? Do you want to show them who you really are? Do you want to get to know them better? If the answers to any of these questions are 'no', then I think you have to ask yourself whether you're actually pursuing healthy sexual relationships or whether you're just using these women as a way to achieve your own sexual satisfaction.

Maybe it will, and maybe it won't. I've had a lot of experience with premature ejaculation. To the best of my knowledge, it's a psychological problem, not a physiological one. If you're having trouble with premature ejaculation, here's my advice. These things have all helped me with PE, and maybe they'll help you, too:

• Foreplay. This is the number one most effective tool for dealing with PE. Spend a lot of time on foreplay. Spend more time on foreplay than you do actually having intercourse. It makes a huge difference, and it makes sex an enjoyable experience even if you don't last a long time once you actually get going.
  
• Set up a safe location to have sex in. This should be somewhere you're comfortable with. I suggest your bedroom. Put your favorite sheets on the bed, light a candle, use a fan for white noise, play some relaxing music. Do anything you can think of to help make it a comfortable environment for yourself and your partner.
• Relax, man. Relax! Relax your muscles during foreplay and during intercourse. Don't hold your breath.
• Meditate. This goes with the previous item. Meditation helps you relax. Since you work out regularly, I'd recommend meditating after you work out. A clear mind helps you appreciate your surroundings more, and helps you appreciate sex more as well.
• If things are getting too intense while you're having sex, pull out and take a break for a second. Go back to just kissing, touching, and cuddling for a few minutes. The point of this exercise is to just relax, and to take the pressure off yourself. It's not a turn off, and your partner will really enjoy it. It's fun to have a mixture of intense and more relaxed sexual experiences.

Hope some of that helps!

 

I believe with hard mode, it's best to lower sources of sexual stimulation to the minimum.

 

Damn, what did you say to get her to masturbate in the car?