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HELP Husband searches for nude women when he's right besides me

Discussion in 'Partner Support' started by wifeofaddict01, Oct 4, 2017.

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    wifeofaddict01 Fapstronaut

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    So this is really hurting me , we are sitting next to each other In opossite ways, now we are withoyt wifi connection so he can't watch P , so he downloads tons of pics every single day. Amd he thinks I don't know but I do...
    We have talked about it and still he does those things... he's obsessed with women's chest too..
     
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    ContinueFight Fapstronaut

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    Tell him, ask him if he really likes to watch other women more than his own wife
    He needs to show some kind of regret regarding this. It's bad if he's doing this behind your back but even more shameless to do it right next to you. People here realized that it is bad to watch pornographic material so they show some regret
    What does your husband want? I know that it might be scary to hear his answer but certain things need to be done
    If he doesn't value you enough, he simply doesn't deserve you. If he feels remorse then you can work on it.
    But first he has to understand that it's wrong to watch it.
     
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    wifeofaddict01 Fapstronaut

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    Yes, we have talked about it and he said he wanted to change and admited that what he did was wrong. But the thing is he had stopped for a while like 2 weeks and now he's doing it again, but as we don't have wifi now he cant watch videos so he's downloading pictures... of all kinds of women naked, but he doesn't I know what he's doing, but I caught him doing that then searched his story and saw the time he downloaded the photos was the same when we were sitting and talking, we were both with phones on hands but I was checking my Facebook, while he was peacefully doing that...
     
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    ContinueFight Fapstronaut

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    Alright at least he regrets it but why are you playing a spy? You should tell him what you have experienced. 2 weeks are fine but it needs constant work. Maybe you should convince him to make an account here if he's really serious about stopping or watch a TEDtalk or NoFap Videos.
     
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    wifeofaddict01 Fapstronaut

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    Yeah I know that was wrong but I just wanted to see how far he could go with his lies, Yeah I do have to talk with him abiut this again I just don't have courage it has been like 4 times , and I'm already giving up , despite my love for him I feel like it's not worth it anymore . We are both young, very attractive , nice etc, but he seems like he's made his choice no matter how many promises he makes
     
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    You shouldn't wait and look how far he goes with his lies and then confront him, thats like setting up a trap. You have my respect for having the courage to talk to him about this 4 times.
    I can't say if he's worth it.
    But I would try anything possible for my loved one before giving up. And if you tried everything and he still continued watching porn, at least you could say that you tried everything. That doesnt mean you should wait for him your whole life but until your limit.
     
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